Tää oli hyvä kirjoitus väittelystä, eli vänkäämisestä:
"Over the years I’ve slowly stopped arguing. Not because I stopped caring about being right, but because I finally understood what an argument actually is, and what it can and cannot do. Here is what changed my mind.
The first thing I had to give up was the belief that being correct is always good. As an engineer, this felt like heresy. Correctness is the whole job. But correctness in a fact is not the same as goodness in a moment...
Most Arguments Are About Ego, Not Ideas. When you argue with someone, you think you’re debating an idea. Often you’re not. You’re challenging their sense of self..."
https://wangcong.org/2026-06-30-why-i-stopped-arguing-with-people.html
Väittelyiden välttely on sunnah, eli lähettilään esimerkin mukaista elämistä:
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Whoever gives up argument when he is in the right, a palace will be built from him in the middle (of Paradise).'" - Sunan Ibn Majah 51
" 'A'isha reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
The most despicable amongst persons in the eye of Allah is one who tries to fall into dispute with others (for nothing but only to display his knowledge and power of argumentation)." - Sahih Muslim 2668
"Abu Nu’aym reported: Ma’ruf al-Karkhi, may Allah have mercy on him, said, “If Allah wills goodness for a servant, He opens the door of action and closes the door of disputation. If Allah wills harm for a servant, He closes the door of action and opens the door of disputation.” - Ḥilyat al-Awliyā’ 13021
"And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace." - Surah Al-Furqan Ayat 63
"And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, "For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace will be upon you; we seek not the ignorant."" - Surah Al-Qasas Ayat 55
