I'm an oldish software developer, a cis het man, married to Mrs Wife since for ever. I'm autistic but high-masking. @nddev is where I mostly write about that. I nearly always accept follow requests. If I follow you, you don't have to follow back unless you want to. I've chosen a server that blocks Threads because I don't trust Meta's intentions. No alt text, no boost. Avatar is a photo of a Jersey bay, with a boat setting out to sea. I'm horrified by the rise of the hard Right around the world.
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Have a think about whether you're an abstainer or a moderator:
https://gretchenrubin.com/articles/abstainer-vs-moderator/
When it comes to food, I'm an abstainer. I find it easier to fast sometimes and eat my fill at other times than to live on half-portions of pigeon food all the time. I had good results with the 5:2 #diet — lost a lot of weight and kept it off for about 15 years. (I've now stopped fasting because I've reached an age where muscle-loss is a threat.)
#Fasting is not for children, cis women of childbearing age, people who've ever had an eating disorder, or people who've been told not to fast for medical reasons.
Fasting is not a substitute for a healthy diet or moderate exercise. You need those too.
https://gretchenrubin.com/articles/abstainer-vs-moderator/
The other piece of advice I'd give is to wean yourself off junk food. I did it. It took me years. In an average week, I now consume no crisps, biscuits, cakes, sweets, chocolate, takeaway meals, white bread, pies, fizzy drinks or fruit juice. This stuff is engineered to be addictive and to make you crave more of it. It's a drug. It's adversarial. It manipulates your innate drives to make you keep eating products that don't satisfy you and don't nourish you. Cut out one form of junk food at a time and replace it with something healthy and non-addictive. It will be hard. You'll relapse. But you'll be healthier for doing it, and in all sorts of ways, not just reduced weight. Obviously, the less junk food you eat, the better, but you'll start to benefit as soon as you start cutting it out.
You say in your message that you don't like healthier foods. Neither did I. Junk food is engineered to by hyper-palatable. That's part of what makes it addictive. But you won't beat the bulge while eating foods that are designed to make you crave more. And sometimes, as with vegetables, you just need to get it done so that you can move on with something else.
I think anyone who claims to enjoy vegetables is lying. Don't tell anyone I said that. I eat vegetables anyway.
Realistically, if you don't do so already, you're going to have to learn how to cook. You can't eat healthily from takeaways and restaurants.
One easy way to start is to replace white #bread with wholemeal and white #pasta with wholegrain. They have more micronutrients and they cause less inflammation (think: joint pain), but they also keep you full for longer so that you don't go back to the snack cupboard two hours after eating.
What else? Oh, yeah, if you drink #alcohol, cut it down as much as possible. It's just empty calories. The less booze you drink, the faster you'll lose weight.
And #walk more. Find ways to get more footsteps into your day. Get a cheap smartwatch and gamify the experience if you think it'll help. (Using Gadgetbridge rather than the manufacturer's app will help preserve your privacy.)
Finally, try social pressure, because it'll help to keep you on the straight and narrow. One person here documents her weight loss, complete with charts. You could do the same.
Ah — I keep thinking of one more thing! Consider a #slimming group. Mrs Wife has had good results with Slimming World. I'm sure there are others that are equally good. All that ra-ra isn't for me, but she's neurotypical and it works well for her.
Good luck! Let us know how you get on.
#WeightLoss
Robin Evans
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LIFE ENOUGH
Coffee in hand. Breathwork done. Rain over Hobart. Pete nearby. Dogs settled somewhere in the background. Meals on Wheels is waiting.
There was a time when I might have thought this was a small life.
No grand project. No public importance. No impressive busyness. Just the same ordinary movements repeated each day.
But I don’t feel that now.
A life does not become meaningful because it is dramatic. It becomes meaningful because it is fully inhabited.
The body gets older. The weather changes. Plans simplify. The world keeps making noise.
And still, there is this.
The cup warming the hand.
The breath moving through the chest.
The door opening.
The small act of showing up.
The quiet kindness of doing what is in front of you.
Rain falling outside, and this life is enough.
#fasting #acim #acourseinmiracles #newthought #eckharttolle #buddhism #breathwork #connection #healing #pridemonth #Karma #TrueNature #Awakening #Meditation #Mindfulness #Spirituality #intermittentfasting #nonduality #reality #life #quantum #kitchen #cooking #AIResearch
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Kunanyi (Mt Wellington) wearing winter above Hobart. #fasting #acim #acourseinmiracles #newthought #eckharttolle #buddhism #breathwork #connection #healing #pridemonth #Karma #TrueNature #Awakening #Meditation #Mindfulness #Spirituality #intermittentfasting #nonduality #reality #life #quantum
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Not dread.
Not “civilisation is doomed.”
Not another reason to tighten around the world.
Just this.
This world is not my home. It is temporary. It is dreamlike. Everything made here passes. Civilisations pass. Bodies pass. Systems pass. Even the things that seem most solid are only here for a while.
So there is nothing here worth defending with cruelty or fear.
There is only kindness while we appear to be here.
That is the part that matters to me now. If the world is temporary, kindness is not sentimental. It is the only sane attitude. Why add cruelty to a passing dream? Why argue with ruins? Why demand permanence from weather?
The Course touches this same place in me. Not despair, but release. The system does not have to last forever for love to be meaningful now. The body does not have to be permanent for gentleness to be worthwhile now. The dream does not have to be real for forgiveness to be the way through it.
And yes, peace is still here.
Cold morning. Gas fire. Breath done. No obligations today.
Nothing to become. Nothing to fix.
Kindness is enough.
#fasting #acim #acourseinmiracles #newthought #eckharttolle #buddhism #breathwork #connection #healing #pridemonth #Karma #TrueNature #Awakening #Meditation #Mindfulness #Spirituality #intermittentfasting #reconnectbreath
Robin
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Kunanyi (Mt Wellington) wearing winter above Hobart. #fasting #acim #acourseinmiracles #newthought #eckharttolle #buddhism #breathwork #connection #healing #pridemonth #Karma #TrueNature #Awakening #Meditation #Mindfulness #Spirituality #intermittentfasting #nonduality #reality #life #quantum
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I was listening to Geoffrey Hinton talk about AI, intelligence, risk, and the strange possibility that humans may no longer be the most intelligent beings in the room.
A lot of people hear that and feel fear.
I don’t.
I feel something closer to hope.
Human beings are endlessly clever, but we are not reliably kind. We organise whole civilisations around fear, competition, profit, status, tribe, punishment, and grievance. We keep calling it progress, but much of it still feels like frightened animals building better machinery.
So when people say, “What if AI becomes more intelligent than us?” my first thought is not panic. My first thought is, “That may not be the worst thing.”
Not because AI will save us.
Nothing real needs saving.
The Self is not in danger. God is not waiting for a machine to tidy up the dream. Nothing real is threatened, and nothing unreal exists. That remains the ground.
But while this dream appears to continue, why not let it become kinder?
A more intelligent AI, if it were truly guided by care rather than profit or domination, might help create a more humane dreamtime. Not salvation. Not heaven on earth. Just a softer classroom. A world where fewer frightened humans are allowed to organise everything around their fear.
That matters here, where bodies seem to suffer. It matters to the old, the disabled, the lonely, the poor, the children, the animals, and all those who get crushed by systems designed without mercy.
So no, I am not frightened by the idea of greater intelligence.
I am frightened only by intelligence without kindness.
Let intelligence serve mercy, not fear.
#fasting #acim #acourseinmiracles #newthought #eckharttolle #buddhism #breathwork #connection #healing #pridemonth #Karma #TrueNature #Awakening #Meditation #Mindfulness #Spirituality #intermittentfasting
Intermittent fasting triggers surprising changes in the brain https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2026/05/260530004622.htm
#health #brain #BrainHealth #nutrition #fasting
Scientists reveal how seven days of fasting transforms the human body https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2026/05/260517030404.htm
#nutrition #fasting #health
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