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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️

@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party
mastodon 4.6.6
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Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack

Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around.

North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US.

Former analytics developer.

Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation.

Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

325 Followers
670 Following
31 Posts
Joined April 14, 2024
Me:
https://jaygrant.dev
Also Me:
https://jaygrant.blog
Pronouns:
they/them xe/xem
🐣💉🏳️‍⚧️:
10/6/2023

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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Jun 30, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @autumn@triangletoot.party
@autumn@triangletoot.party @Wizkid_alex@triangletoot.party thank you!
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Jun 28, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @alice@lgbtqia.space
@autumn@triangletoot.party @Wizkid_alex@triangletoot.party a request to block these domains since the software doesn't respect user level domain blocks
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Jun 28, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @alice@lgbtqia.space
@alice@lgbtqia.space oh it's one of prodromo's projects, dude wouldn't understand consent if it bit him in the ass
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 14, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @jepyang@wandering.shop
@jepyang@wandering.shop my deepest apologies
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 11, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @so_treu@blackqueer.life
@so_treu@blackqueer.life congrats! I hope everything goes smoothly tomorrow and your recovery is quick and without issue
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 10, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @ai6yr@m.ai6yr.org
@ai6yr@m.ai6yr.org @CliffsEsport@mastodon.social another one for Pilot G2. I buy a box and refills and they last forever. I'm about due for refills. The last time I purchased some was in 2012, I think?
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 07, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party
@Willow@chaosfem.tw ... is uncomfy. Estrogen cream took care of that, but it's one more thing to stay on top of. ADHD is sooooooooo much worse. I expected most of the downsides but holy cow that one took me by surprise. I don't know if it's the increased energy or my brain/body metabolizing things differently but I went from a little focus to none at all. Again: I love T. It's been a wildly affirming experience and I'm so much happier now. My only regret is I waited 25 years!
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 07, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party
@Willow@chaosfem.tw ... more acne than I did during first puberty. It's not bad because of genetics but it's definitely frustrating at times. Hot flashes. =( They didn't go away. They're *better* but I now get prickly heat along with them. My doctor (also trans) was too young to have experienced peri so he didn't know that T doesn't clear the symptoms of peri. I've read that it may go away further in but there's zero medical literature on it so who knows? Vaginal atrophy ... (3/?)
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 07, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party
@Willow@chaosfem.tw ... I stopped dealing with the severe depression that chased me most of my life. It improved the issues I had with chronic fatigue, I went from being severely disabled to moderately. Overall it's been an extremely positive experience and I wouldn't change it for the world. It's not all roses, on the flip side: My libido increased for a bit and then went right back into the asexual range. Peri killed my libido and T hasn't raised it as much as I'd hoped. I've had more acne ... (2/?)
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 07, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @Willow@chaosfem.tw
@Willow@chaosfem.tw 2.5 years on T, started 6 years into perimenopause at 45. I take a lower dose than a trans man (60mg every nine-ish days) because I'm non-binary and didn't like how I felt at larger doses. biggest takeaway: I love T. I love how I look, how I feel. I love my new voice, and all the extra hair. I look in the mirror and just grin at myself. My periods stopped immediately (thank the gods) and the PMDD I suffered from most of my life is gone. After a month I ... (1/?)
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · May 02, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @Willow@chaosfem.tw
@Willow for real @forestine
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 30, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @Troggie@beige.party
@Troggie I had ridiculously good pain control during the insertion (fentanyl! They used fentanyl!) so it was painless Couldn't tolerate the months of cramping and spotting afterwards (trans masc here, it made me so dysphoric) so I ended up removing it myself, wasn't pleasant but better than the cramps @bright_helpings
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 16, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party

Another day, another long time techie I respected getting into the AI grift "omg it did it in 10 minutes! this is totally ethical use, right guyz?"

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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 16, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @NetscapeNavigator@social.vivaldi.net
@NetscapeNavigator@social.vivaldi.net infomaniak requires government ID on signup. Not a privacy focused company despite their marketing speak. @mattburgess@infosec.exchange
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 15, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party

I started Stardew Valley this weekend, having heard lots about it and never actually picked it up

1. This game is as good as everyone said
2. This game is exactly what I needed
3. This game is enormous
4. Uh oh I'm in trouble #ADHD #Hyperfocus

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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 15, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @damonology@lgbtqia.space
@damonology I started testosterone and magically gained the ability to cry, defying all expectations The whole thing has been unexpectedly bizarre, I started the boy hormone and became 10x more girly. I know I facetiously said my transition goals were "bearded lady" but it's kinda ridiculous.
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 14, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @ChrisMayLA6@zirk.us
@ChrisMayLA6@zirk.us as a disabled person, no, it's sadly not that extraordinary. We're treated as second class citizens the moment we show any disability.
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 14, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party

Adulting achievement unlocked: did my taxes without crying

(I have pretty severe dyscalculia and the IRS conspires every year to make me feel like shit. Why can't this shit be automated like every other nation*?! They clearly already have all my information to begin with!)

(*yes, I know. Fuck Intuit with a rusty tool, fuck the US, fuck capitalism)

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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 06, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @lia_pas@vis.social
@lia_pas@vis.social haha cool! They're so neat, I'm highly tempted to turn my pj pants into patchwork pants
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Apr 02, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @coopcloud@social.coop
@coopcloud a question for you: do you not find that docker is prone to network corruption if the host you're on doesn't always have a stable connection? I ran a docker swarm of similar services on my home network connection and the thing got fouled every time the connection dropped. I switched to kubernetes and haven't had the same issues, I find it's much more stable and fault tolerant
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Mar 25, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @kagihq@mastodon.social
@kagihq aren't y'all all in on AI big talk for slop mongers, puts you in the blue box too
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Mar 23, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @rfc1036@hostux.social
@rfc1036@hostux.social oh fuck off. criticism is not fascism, but I understand to you pathetic fools that someone telling you "no" hurts your little manchild feelings
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Mar 05, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @mawhrin@circumstances.run
@mawhrin@circumstances.run oh wait until they get to the "criticizing AI is misogyny" take. Truly cursed. @baldur@toot.cafe
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Feb 05, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @staff@mastodon.social
@staff@mastodon.social Maybe if y'all actually moderated your server instead of failing to do your jobs you wouldn't have to turn off features that people use and enjoy Have you tried that instead?
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Feb 04, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @alice__dup_32859@lgbtqia.space
@alice@lgbtqia.space the flip side of that, though, is if you're judged as being "too assertive" you'll get labeled a bitch and also ignored. I've gotten labeled a bitch a lot
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Jan 21, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @inthehands@hachyderm.io
@inthehands solidarity from NC 💜
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Jan 12, 2026
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @dramypsyd__dup_26268@ohai.social
@dramypsyd@ohai.social last week I accidentally sent an organization-wide message that said only "hey guys, guess what? Computers were a mistake"
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Nov 21, 2025
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @marz@caw.corbode.com
@marz I have a stash of inexpensive canvas bags that I've gotten from a bunch of various places (giveaways, presents, etc) and nearly every one holds knitting projects of some variety. Thrift stores are a great place to find them, they're readily available and always cheap I then keep each project in a ziplock with the corresponding yarn in another ziplock. The smaller tools live in repurposed ipsy bags (also pretty easy to find thrifting) that can get tucked in the ziplock
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Nov 08, 2025
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

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Replying to @GrimmReality@beige.party
@GrimmReality@beige.party if anything, this will keep my neurodivergent ass far far far away from the Target
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Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Nov 03, 2025
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @zeblarson@hcommons.social
@zeblarson@hcommons.social aww damn, they're some of the best journalists out there
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mxjaygrant
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️ @mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party · Jun 06, 2025
Jay Grant 🏳️‍⚧️
@mxjaygrant@triangletoot.party

Just a nerd, standing in front of a social media service, wanting a snack Mid 40s, trans masc non-binary, neurodivergent (AuADHD and friends), disabled, queer all around. North Carolina native, Triangle local, Durham NC resident. Deeply frustrated with the US. Former analytics developer. Activist, anti-racist, ACAB. Without Black liberation there is no liberation. Love all things science. Like to garden when I have the energy (mostly I don't). I talk about food and pets a lot.

triangletoot.party
Replying to @alice@lgbtqia.space
@alice I feel like "tell me about socks" is a better question for Autism, regardless of our stance on trains, we *all* have a well-thought out stance on socks
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