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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Aug 01, 2026

Hubby nearly got clobbered over making dinner tonight. We are having ground-turkey-pasta-sauce and hubby called it dinosauce.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Aug 01, 2026

So, tomorrow is our annual "Yea we're not at Pennsic" party. Once called the Pennsic Pity Party.

Lots of cleaning to do, hubby has to make a grocery run. And tomorrow will be 12 people at Bag End, hopefully having fun eating, drinking and making merry.

We hope we manage to be okay.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jul 31, 2026

Crying.

The chicken we were supposed to make for dinner came out of its package rotten.

Thrown out immediately.

We were looking forward to lemon chicken.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jul 31, 2026

Sunset photo local. Sigh. If only it were really like this today.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jul 14, 2026

Replying to @Oldfartrant@mstdn.ca

@Oldfartrant@mstdn.ca @GayDeceiver@mstdn.social Snort!!!!!

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jul 14, 2026

Replying to @GayDeceiver@mstdn.social

@GayDeceiver@mstdn.social The Longest Day the Earth Stood Still #LongDayMovies #HashTagGames

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jul 08, 2026

Replying to @hosford42@techhub.social

@hosford42@techhub.social Where are you located? We can look for agencies in your region.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jul 08, 2026

Replying to @hosford42@techhub.social

@hosford42@techhub.social Only thing we can think of is get a job agency batting for you. They can not only get long-term positions opened up, but shorter term stuff as well.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jun 30, 2026

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Replying to @NanoRaptor@bitbang.social

@NanoRaptor@bitbang.social We wrote a post for Medium that got published.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Jun 08, 2026

Replying to @Catvalente@wandering.shop

@Catvalente@wandering.shop Chaucer, The Pardoner's Tale.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 19, 2026

Timeline continued:

2022 - Muddling through
2023 - Muddling through
2024 - new meds, we hate them
2025 - meds suck, we want off
2026 - so far it still sucks. Internal meetings happen, we are working with a good therapist, a good doctor, and we are trying to just be. Hubby still here, we love him. We just need to get off the meds.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 19, 2026

Timeline continued

2014 - yeet the uterus.
2015 - hot flashes and night sweats, but we graduate college.
2016 - we start coming apart because of hormones.
2017 - internal meetings stop for awhile, no one wants to listen.
2018 - new job, local, we are driving for the first time in our life. We have a local doctor prescribing our meds and doing a little psychiatry with us.
2019 - many small things add up, we begin to miss taking meds.
2020 - COVID mess, everything sucks.
2021- ditto.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 19, 2026

Timeline continued:

2007 - medications, internal meetings, we function.

2008 - new job, more medications.

2009 - We think we are doing okay. Everyone knows about everyone else. We are a conglomerate. We are functional and doing well.

2010 - As 2009, no changes

2011 - we leave our job, we are trying to work through stuff.

2012 - we go back to school and try for the college degree. Hubby and in-laws are so wonderful.

2013 - school, internal meetings, the first signs of real menopause

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 19, 2026

Timeline continued:

2002 - We are making a mess of our life. Our doctor thinks we need to stop seeing the BB. We embrace bisexuality and take up with a girlfriend.

2003 - More internal meetings, more coherence between all of us. We are down to 2 sessions a week. First iteration of medications.

2004 - BB is still in our life, we have lots of stupid going on.

2005 - we meet the future hubby, drop the BB and the 2 girlfriends. We get married at the end of the year.

2006 - breakdown, a mess.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 19, 2026

Timeline continued:

1997 - We have our annual review with our psychiatrist and he takes us from 3-4 sessions a week down to 2-3. We stay at 3 for the year. We turn 30 years old.

1998 - More horror. We become non-functional for about 3 months.

1999 - We go no-contact with several family members. There is a lot of family drama. We hate it all.

2000 - We have a decent job for the first time, and are making an effort to have internal meetings to work out stuff.

2001 - the Bad Boyfriend. Ugh.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 19, 2026

Timeline.

1993 - we start intensive psychotherapy after our dad passes away (cancer) and the divorce from dipshit two years before. We are floundering, we are suicidal.

1994 - after a year of 3-4 sessions a week, we have some answers. We are plural, we have lots to go.

1995 - two years of 3-4 sessions a week. We have a job, but things aren't improving much. Too many traumas to sort through.

1996 - Breakthrough, lots of screaming and crying and vomiting at our sessions.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 18, 2026

The Voidvods were up and attem this morning. Knocked down one of the window shades in the bedroom, knocked over the litterbox in the bathroom, bit the hubby's toes and ankles and got his earbuds to play with.

We have a coffee float, and have taken our meds, so we aren't super mad anymore.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 18, 2026

Nicely grilled steelhead trout for dinner, simply cooked with OO, salt and pepper, lemon drizzled on after cooking. Spinach on the side.

Very tasty. Hubby does good fishies.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 14, 2026

Replying to @PetraPhoenix@beige.party

@PetraPhoenix@beige.party Try here - https://sensorysmart.co.uk/collections/clothing

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 04, 2026

Replying to @oddtail@meow.social

@oddtail One of three possible problems - corrupted firmware hardware problem software problem If you have a Samsung phone, there are videos out there about how to unbrick it.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 04, 2026

Replying to @stylus@social.afront.org

@stylus@social.afront.org If you are walking very fast (city pace) and with purpose, you should be fine. As long as walking a mile is within your abilities, it should be okay. If you aren't used to walking that far at a fast pace, call a rideshare, or hail a local cab.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 04, 2026

Remember Kent State!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9INnMMwvnk&list=RDJ9INnMMwvnk&start_radio=1

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · May 01, 2026

For any SCAdians* on here - Happy Anno Societatis LXI!

*please see sca.org for more information

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Apr 29, 2026

Therapy session today. We spoke about finding people on here who are also neurodivergent via DID. Our therapist thinks that's a good thing.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Apr 19, 2026

Replying to @bobonbooks@mindly.social

@bobonbooks@mindly.social We are in one now. Medicine making us unable to concentrate well. We picked up a bunch of the Moomin books last year and still haven't finished them. We also have a stack of medieval history books we need to read. Its soo hard. We just want to sit down and read for hours...

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Apr 04, 2026

Replying to @mmezabet@craftgoblin.club

@mmezabet@craftgoblin.club Not Finnish, but got the Google-fu - https://www.neprajz.hu/en/gyujtemenyek/artefact-of-the-month/2019_11_serpent-stone-and-bear-claw.html

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Mar 04, 2026

Replying to @taedryn@anarres.family

@taedryn megender.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Feb 20, 2026

Replying to @Steveg58@aus.social

@Steveg58@aus.social @AspiringLuddite@medievalist.masto.host Hubby loves every cuisine he can get his hands on, though he especially loves German.

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Lilli System @liliedubh@medievalist.masto.host · Feb 20, 2026

Replying to @AspiringLuddite@medievalist.masto.host

@AspiringLuddite@medievalist.masto.host https://youtu.be/o9oS-x3XM8w?si=QlgIZuzIq_WsfAGM - apparently no one thinks of lactofermentation.

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