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Very queer and extremely cuddly autistic lesbian approaching my 40s :Blobhaj_Flag_Progress_Intersex_Right:

I mostly shitpost about IT, relationships, politics and crossborder rail travel in EU.

Certified bottom.
"Confirmed to be more gay than Sappho" - @ghost_bird@mythago.space
"Cat princess" - a certain someone

Follow requests are absolutely welcome, but please, interactions first so that I can know you.
Boosts and stars are OK, interactions are extremely OK. If I post something, I do that in the hope that it will be read and maybe discussed! Moar interactions please
(Unless you're a racist, imperialist, sexist, ableist, homophobe, TERF, SWERF, cryptocurrencies bro, free speech fan or a 4channer, in which case GTFO. If you think you're not one but apologist of one, GTFO and also you're one.)

Interpersonal relationships are not trans actional.

Born in USSR, live in Berlin, in happy exclusive mono wife relationship with @kiso4koid@embracing.space

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Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Aug 01, 2026

Replying to @manunzip@desperatesluts.online

@manunzip@desperatesluts.online @adatje@kinkycats.org like, that's the entire reason why boobs were invented

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 30, 2026

Replying to @IngaLovinde@embracing.space

DEpol Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

@sashag@anarres.family also this reminds me how in "Queer as Folk" TV series (the one from 2022) they mocked this thing exactly.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 30, 2026

Replying to @sashag@anarres.family

DEpol Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

@sashag@anarres.family it's a pity he wasn't in Bundestag in 2017 so I can't check how he voted on same sex marriage bill. Although I can guess how he would have voted.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 29, 2026

Replying to @whitequark@social.treehouse.systems

@whitequark@social.treehouse.systems @0xabad1dea@infosec.exchange but that's basically the same alphabet

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 27, 2026

Replying to @siina@social.criminallycute.fi

@siina@social.criminallycute.fi isn't this called perineum

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 26, 2026

Replying to @IngaLovinde@embracing.space

re: Berlin CSD news (death indirectly referenced), nazis, slurs Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

And of course the queer hating right is now very vocal about the urgent need to deport all brown people, because although the suspect was born in Berlin, his parent(s?) were born in the middle east. Because they hate brown people more than they hate queer people; or, because now they can use queer people as a tool to advance their racist beliefs. I've literally seen the same person talk shit about "perverted degenerates" yesterday in the morning and then calling to get rid of brown people for "not respecting European values" in the evening.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 26, 2026

Berlin CSD news (death indirectly referenced) cops Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

On the corporate CSD yesterday, from multiple floats, at several different points of time: "we want to express our gratitude to and thank the police for keeping quiet people safe!" Meanwhile police in huge numbers: harassing protesters on the protest pride march, eventually blocking and dissolving the protest, and then catching everybody queer looking in the vicinity and searching them and writing down their IDs. And then, on the corporate CSD (someone drivers into the crowd, attacks people with a knife, and flees, without being stopped by police, because most of the police were deployed in another district, to harass and intimidate queers on protest pride. (For those not aware of the difference: in Berlin, two events have been going on at the same date in the recent years. One is corporate city-endorsed CSD, opened by the city mayor (currently from queerphobic right CDU party), with floats mostly from corporations such as Axel Springer (owns tabloid Bild that's responsible for most xenophobia and most homophobia published in mainstream, not dissimilar to Daily Mail or Fox News) and some floats from political parties such as aforementioned CDU which is against gay marriage; it is hugely popular, with like 500k to 1m people attending it, most of them cishet "allies" or just those wanting to see a colorful carnival basically. Another is a protest pride, iqpberlin.org , done by queers for queers, and having very heavy police presence, with like 10x more cop cars leading and trailing it, and lots of heavily armed cops all along the demo; and these cops are there not to protect the protesters but to harass the protesters and to search for opportunities to arrest them. The attack was on the first one.)

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 23, 2026

Replying to @DarcMoughty@infosec.exchange

@DarcMoughty@infosec.exchange @mcc@mastodon.social yes, CDDB data was track listing + album cover + other album info identifiable by album checksum derived from track lengths and numbers. Useful to audio CD playback software, for displaying album art and track names (this was the only reason for CDDB to exist, because audio CDs, roughly speaking, do not have any metadata besides track lengths); but absolutely useless for identifying songs by fragments. Considering that society mostly moved away from audio CDs and that all the other digital music formats (including those stored on CDs) typically also store metadata, I don't think CDDB is very relevant now.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 23, 2026

Replying to @DarcMoughty@infosec.exchange

@DarcMoughty@infosec.exchange @mcc@mastodon.social but CDDB worked on entirely different principle? Not sure how CDDB would help with identifying a song by its fragment.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 21, 2026

"There is no antimemetics division" is clearly a book of fiction, because hypercompetent people are never in charge IRL. Maybe that's why it is so popular.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 17, 2026

Replying to @sashag@anarres.family

@sashag@anarres.family I usually call them straight gays

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 15, 2026

Replying to @podryban@wspanialy.eu

@podryban@wspanialy.eu @agturcz@circumstances.run also, "His Dark Materials"!

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 12, 2026

Replying to @LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt

About altersex genitals in art and discussion of terminology Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

@LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt

While women with dicks and men with pussies are pretty much always transgender in real life

Hmm now I'm thinking that in theory, some cis men might get vaginoplasty...

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 10, 2026

Once again people are discussing Forced Felinization Surgery on my timeline

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 07, 2026

what

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · Jul 01, 2026

Replying to @LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt

@LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt

Of course no lanes were closed for cars and repurposed as a temporary footpath.

In Berlin in similar cases people just repurpose the outermost lane themselves (by simply walking on it regardless of the signage; idk whether this is technically legal but nobody seems to care). But this is probably less effective in places with less foot traffic and with intense car traffic.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 25, 2026

"Oh neat, new generation of Thinkpad P14s AMD is out, I wonder what would the equivalent of my current configuration (bought for 1800 EUR back when that generation was new) cost"

5.089,01 € Inkl. MwSt. :blobcattableflip:
(Base minimal configuration is over 2k EUR, they used to start much cheaper; 64GB RAM increase it by 1550; 2TB SSD increases it by 1320.)
(Meanwhile equivalent topseller configuration of previous generation with the same 64GB/2TB, is currently still available in 4 stores, starting at 2270 EUR, up from the lowest level of 2040 in February, and up from the introduction level of 2200 a year ago). So it's basically just 3k EUR extra for the privilege of having Ryzen "AI" 450 instead of Ryzen "AI" 350.)

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 17, 2026

Replying to @mei@donotsta.re

@mei@donotsta.re just set "means of transport" filter to "EuroCity and intercity trains only", and you'll get connections starting at 10€ (with change in Berlin). Bonus tip: if you're traveling from Poland, you can just buy a through ticket (with the same filter); getting to Magdeburg will then cost you just like 5€ extra compared to getting to Frankfurt. It's just that regional tickets are all only sold with expensive base (flex) fare making them more expensive that saver fares on long-distance trains.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 14, 2026

Replying to @lynnesbian@fedi.lynnesbian.space

@lynnesbian@fedi.lynnesbian.space @shrew@oomfie.city performance performance computing, for when you want twice the performance per computing

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 14, 2026

Replying to @maartje@blahaj.social

@maartje@blahaj.social Emails about my train: Your booking Your ticket Your ticket (after seat change) Essential information!! Your booking was changed (my work schedule did, rebooked) Your ticket Your ticket (twice?) Essential information about your train!! Please rate your trip Our terms of service have changed Your data has been breached and leaked Thalys is now Eurostar Eurostar is missing you Eurostar is shutting down

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 13, 2026

Replying to @aud@fire.asta.lgbt

@aud@fire.asta.lgbt @futurebird@sauropods.win but I want to see the cute foxes 😭

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @biogeo@mefi.social

@biogeo@mefi.social @futurebird@sauropods.win like they prosecuted Trump with their justice delayed?

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net

@butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @buncube@transfem.social

How many decisions do you regret that you made at 14?

A lot in fact. Some of them I didn't know I made because society made them for me. Some of them, my parents did for me. A huge problem with a lot of these decisions is that they're not easily undone, in many cases because society deliberately makes them difficult to undo. I can also say the same about decisions made at 16, or at 18, because I didn't just wake up one day on my birthday as a fully formed responsible person. (None of them as bad as getting pregnant, but still.)

Also CW mentions grooming and a significant part of our society doesn't even really consider it to be abuse on a technicality, simply because no sexual act happens until technically the child reaches the age of consent. Although actually it is just as bad as other forms of CSA.

Well, imagine getting pregnant and married at 14

If we're talking about some idealized world, well maybe then marriage should also not be what it is now (if at all), and maybe it should be unacceptable that people become pregnant at 14. But weirdly enough, some parts of our society seem to be very interested in introducing global surveillance under the pretext of banning children from internet under the pretext of saving them from sexual abuse, and at the same time to be very interested in forcing the abused children to carry the pregnancy to term (as if this did not compound the abuse extremely, as if this did not constitute a separate form of abuse probably much worse than the rape itself).

But thank you for your perspective, I never heard this reasoning about CSA being different from other forms of abuse before. Usually it goes more like that: "OBVIOUSLY sex is an extremely special thing so OBVIOUSLY sex work is not a real work but something entirely different and OBVIOUSLY child sexual abuse is not a real abuse but something entirely different so OBVIOUSLY we need to surveil the entire population to ensure that nobody younger than 21 never hears anything related to sex in the spaces we control and that no adult ever pays transactionally to another adult for sex in the places we control, and if you disagree then OBVIOUSLY you're a pedophile and rapist and support human trafficking".

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @chadow@ruby.social

@chadow@ruby.social @lehtimaeki@snapp.social @fdroidorg@floss.social also "Neo Store" has a nice UI

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @buncube@transfem.social

@buncube@transfem.social @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net my (probably considered to be problematic; and I really hope that fragments of this post won't get quoted out of context; I didn't put hours of thought into each sentence here, so some of them might be badly worded and I guess misinterpreted in bad faith) opinion about CSA is that CSA is only such a big thing in our society because sex is such a big and separate and taboo thing in our society. Sex work is work, and similarly, child sexual abuse could be said to be just a child abuse. It's only because sex is considered to be such a special thing, that child sexual abuse gets disproportionate amount of attention (with it being used to introduce all kinds of surveillance for everybody for example), while all the other child abuse gets almost no attention at all. And yes, children are hugely traumatized by sexual abuse (compared to other forms of abuse), but how much of that difference is caused by our society telling them that sex is such a special thing that they should feel traumatized in a very special way by this specific form of abuse? (Both explicitly and implicitly, by subjecting victims of CSA to all the experiences they have to face after the fact of CSA). And also, yes, perhaps if sex was considered to be just an activity (although more intimate than many other activities), then a lot less people would be willing to abuse children in this specific way, because it just would not be The Thing.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @buncube@transfem.social

@buncube@transfem.social @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net uhh that's not what I meant 😅 what I was talking about was more like, people who don't have private housing and don't have enough money on hotels etc need alternative free places to fuck (in privacy). Kinda like we have with public toilets. But also I don't disagree with what you're saying, with one caveat that of course this has to be consensual for everybody including those who see it (because unfortunately I've seen it on fedi more than once that people talk about having sex in public spaces, _flaunting_ that unwilling unexpecting bystanders witnessed it). Incidentally I recently read a really good book, "The Thick and the Lean" by Chana Porter, where one of the main premises is "what if there was a society just like ours but where sex is considered to be as mundane as eating is in ours, and where eating is considered to be as taboo as sex in ours?" And also to expand on this, I'm currently lucky to live in a country where unclothed bodies are accepted in dedicated spaces (including some beaches and some lawns), and I think this does wonders for body positivity, because instead of only seeing unhealthy photoshopped images in glossy magazines, people can see actual bodies the way they are in all their diversity. Unfortunately even in this country the practice was slowly dying out in the last decades, I wish it expanded more instead. And I wonder how life would be if there was a similar approach to sex.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @ics@tau-ceti.space

@ics@tau-ceti.space I just noticed that the last part of your previous post is _almost_ in alphabetic order 😅

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @ics@tau-ceti.space

@ics@tau-ceti.space

✅️ Ant-Man ✅️ Avengers - Age of Ultron ✅️ Black Panther ✅️ Black Widow ✅️ Captain America - Civil War 🔲 Doctor Strange

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @buncube@transfem.social

@buncube@transfem.social @Mimesatwork@wandering.shop @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net that's the correct reading. (Not necessarily in the libraries because that would disturb silence. But, like, there should be places for that.)

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 11, 2026

Replying to @leeloo@c.im

@leeloo@c.im @adapalmer@wandering.shop and that's just one reason why it won't really work and is more of a hype. @jon@gruene.social who is a rail expert lists more reasons: https://jonworth.eu/solar-panels-between-the-tracks-on-an-active-railway-line-a-dreadful-idea/

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 10, 2026

Replying to @maartje@blahaj.social

@maartje@blahaj.social @Weehaj@blahaj.social it sounds healthy

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 09, 2026

Replying to @charlotte@akko.chir.rs

red button blue button if it was a marshmallow test Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

@charlotte@akko.chir.rs you are alone in a room with a single (vegan) marshmallow on a table. You can choose whether to take this marshmallow now or leave it. There are 99 other participants in identical rooms. If less than 50 participants will leave their marshmallow on the table, the organizers will remove all remaining marshmallows from all the tables and throw them in the dumpster. Will you take the marshmallow now?

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 08, 2026

Replying to @s0@cathode.church

@s0@cathode.church I vote for putting a horse in the pool

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @littlefox@gotosocial-dev.svc.0x0a.network

@littlefox@gotosocial-dev.svc.0x0a.network @domi@donotsta.re @foone@digipres.club me too!

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @domi@donotsta.re

@domi@donotsta.re @foone@digipres.club @littlefox@gotosocial-dev.svc.0x0a.network "I was using windows 95 when I was 12" puts you even earlier than 1992!

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @ada@zoner.work

@ada@zoner.work source: https://www.tiktok.com/@kashyraeby/video/7545399509753416992

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @mcc@mastodon.social

@mcc@mastodon.social @ptrc@social.treehouse.systems @heathen_cat@furs.social yes I understand it now

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @boghan@chaos.social

@boghan@chaos.social @ww@xyzzy.link and also her DNA matches cat's

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @ptrc@social.treehouse.systems

@ptrc@social.treehouse.systems @mcc@mastodon.social @heathen_cat@furs.social ah lol, I didn't notice the link to the main page from the disambiguation page, so was trying to find this "see also" from the movie page and all the other specific pages linked to from disambiguation page.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @mcc@mastodon.social

@mcc@mastodon.social @heathen_cat@furs.social I just cannot find this see also on Wikipedia, maybe I misunderstood what page is it from?

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @lunathemoongirl@cailincat.cloud

@lunathemoongirl@cailincat.cloud but I mean more like, even if you can rip it apart just with your fingers, it feels _wrong_ to just turn a whole flimsy bag into a torn flimsy bag, even if it will go to the garbage bin almost immediately

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

:boost_ok: When you have some bulk vegetables/fruits in a tightly tied thin bag (that's going to be discarded anyway), or try to untie some single-use string, or generally try to unpack some packaing hat turns out to be quite difficult to do without damaging the packaging, even if this packaging wil

Try to cleanly untie/unwrap/unpack it if possible, no matter how long does it take, I'm not autistic

12.9% (4)

Just cut/tear/rip it apart destroying the packaging, I'm not autistic

16.1% (5)

Try to cleanly untie/unwrap/unpack it if possible, no matter how long does it take, I'm autistic

19.4% (6)

Spiderendy

3.2% (1)

Just cut/tear/rip it apart destroying the packaging, I'm autistic

48.4% (15)

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Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 07, 2026

Replying to @mcc@mastodon.social

@mcc@mastodon.social @heathen_cat@furs.social hmm the disambiguation page doesn't look like that to me?

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 06, 2026

Replying to @jon@gruene.social

@jon@gruene.social

The simple and boring one is the most route-km on one single train - that is for the moment 1444.9km on the SJ EuroNight Stockholm - Berlin

Wouldn't that be Milano - Palermo though? Approximately 1230-1290km in the mainland (not sure which line does it take between Roma and Napoli), and additional 223km in Sicily, for 1450+ (or even 1510+) km total

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 06, 2026

Replying to @maartje@blahaj.social

@maartje@blahaj.social "now kiss"

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 05, 2026

Replying to @whitequark@social.treehouse.systems

@whitequark@social.treehouse.systems congrats on your new posting as a poster on mastodon

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 05, 2026

Replying to @kgMadee2@mathstodon.xyz

@kgMadee2@mathstodon.xyz @pinskia@hachyderm.io @ireneista@adhd.irenes.space @lcamtuf@infosec.exchange apparently at that point Google did not consider FF a threat but did consider EdgeHTML a threat. I remember reading some technical write-ups on how that sabotage worked.

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 05, 2026

Replying to @lynnesbian@fedi.lynnesbian.space

@lynnesbian@fedi.lynnesbian.space sounds like the website did indeed shat itself

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 05, 2026

Replying to @pinskia@hachyderm.io

@pinskia@hachyderm.io @ireneista@adhd.irenes.space @lcamtuf@infosec.exchange

It is also why Microsoft Edge went from something written from scratch to be a fork of chromium

Wasn't that because most of Edge audience heavily used Google products (including Google maps and YouTube and Google meet), and Google actively sabotaged the performance of these products in Edge specifically, in order to push users away from it and towards Chrome?

Inga stands with 🇺🇦 🇵🇸 @IngaLovinde@embracing.space · May 04, 2026

Replying to @butchrobot@shork.nerdmusic.net

@butchrobot @Mimesatwork because we can't fuck in cities! Or more generally because there are basically no free third places where one can do the fucking, and a lot of people don't have a private first place in this economy.

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