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Brian
@BriBear@blahaj.zone
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2025.4.7
Just someone looking to make friends, chat and explore myself and the world.
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I need more people to follow. I am mainly looking for generally interesting, happy or cute stuff. I don't mind the occasional post about serious stuff but I want to avoid too much doom scrolling.
My interests are varied but I love science and philosophy. I enjoy thinking and tinkering. I also love cute stuff like stuffies and amigurumi. I'm also open to completely different things. I'm sure there are awesome topics I don't even know about.
So I'd love your suggestions. If it's not to much to ask can I get a simple description of the main content.
For example
@alice@lgbtqia.space - lockpicking, general good cheer, rights defender, lovely to talk to
To those who take the time I really appreciate you.
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@introvertcatto@lgbtqia.space
@introvertcatto@lgbtqia.space he was a terrible president though
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@crmsnbleyd@hachyderm.io
@crmsnbleyd@hachyderm.io in fact most people who would ask you to defend your position are doing it in bad faith anyway.
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@skinnylatte@hachyderm.io
@skinnylatte@hachyderm.io I love a random neat fact. Thanks for sharing.
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@argentum@mas.to
@argentum@mas.to @Melezioh@mstdn.games @crazyeddie@mastodon.social well I don't know which traits we're talking about. It's really down to language use for me. For instance I think men should be generally more aware of their emotions and process them in a healthier manner but I don't think of that as feminisation. I don't see healthy emotional processing as a gendered trait even though wider society might.
If that's something you see as feminisation then we both agree that it's a trait that should be encouraged in people regardless of gender and that it's something that is lacking more generally in men. So we would agree on the action of encouraging that but we may not agree on using the term feminisation because it makes it sound like the trait is gendered.
You could mean something completely different. Without the operational definition of what we're discussing it's hard to actually discuss.
I really hope I'm not coming across as argumentative as that's certainly not my intent. I would like to understand what the intent and meaning of what is being said is so if I do have any further discussion we're not talking past eachother.
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@crazyeddie@mastodon.social
@crazyeddie@mastodon.social @Melezioh@mstdn.games what do you mean by feminisation here?
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@BriBear@blahaj.zone
@alice@lgbtqia.space fancy helping make #SummerOfColour a thing? Everyone is invited but it would be great to see masc presenting people showing off their colours after the discussion the other day.
Some nice yellow pastel for the summer weather.
#SummerOfColour
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@reilyh@blahaj.zone
@reilyh@blahaj.zone hopefully you're asleep by now. I did it again. Tried to start a conversation but got distracted. I'm sleepy too now. Heading to bed.
Hopefully we both have sweet dreams and wake in the morning in good moods.
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@LunaCOLON3@blahaj.zone
@LunaCOLON3@blahaj.zone yes. Also when people send 16 rapid texts instead of 1.
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@BriBear@blahaj.zone
Never really considered myself furry but I'm thinking more and more I'm at least fur adjacent. What have you all done to me
😆
It's somewhat entertaining seeing "young" people realising they are getting older. Like "The movie that came out when I was a kid is x years old."
I remember that well for our generation. Time comes for us all.
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@dfgomes@mastodon.social
@dfgomes@mastodon.social @Techaltar@mas.to oh no you're offended. Oh well.
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@kulupuSoweli@transfem.social
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@kulupuSoweli@transfem.social @aoeuidhtns@app.wafrn.net that sucks. I don't know you and don't want anything from you except for maybe you to feel a bit better. Big squeezy hug <<< I'll leave that here in case you want it.
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@rmondello@hachyderm.io
@rmondello@hachyderm.io it's the equivalent of thoughts and prayers.
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@GoldenRetrieverGF@blahaj.zone
@GoldenRetrieverGF@blahaj.zone @nicolexyz@hachyderm.io that's lovely. Teared up a bit.
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@lunard1ver@blahaj.zone
@lunard1ver@blahaj.zone either side of that scenario sounds nice.
So I took a step yesterday. Was talking to my grandma for the first time in ages. I ended up blurting out "grandma I'm bi"
It went well overall. Other than my aunt, who I told when I was questioning it all, I haven't really told any of my family.
Yesterday I couldn't really say how I felt. Today I feel pretty good about it.
Seems worth sharing and celebrating with you all.
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@carbonated_estrogen@transfem.social
@carbonated_estrogen@transfem.social I was doing boring repetitive tasks at work. I hate repetition like that. So I learned to automate.
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@jascha@ohai.social
@jascha@ohai.social please god today I need a day where I get stuff done. I can't mentally afford to fail again.
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@alice@lgbtqia.space
@joe@beige.party @alice@lgbtqia.space if nothing else we give the best cuddles.
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@scarlet@plush.city
@scarlet@plush.city @soph@grrl.me that's understandable. For me it's really hard because I bought it all hook line and sinker when I was young.
I still believe in those "American" values. I just realise those values are in no way reflected by the American culture. It was all a smokescreen.
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@seraphine@lemmy.blahaj.zone
@seraphine@lemmy.blahaj.zone @Zarxrax@lemmy.world in fact if I can't easily reject I just hit back. I like choosing not to give them my attention