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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space

Chaotic seafaring queer sorcerer roaming foreign lands with complex feelings

Highly political
Fiction: #ForeheadKisses
Non-fiction: #HorizontalMorality

Cis man, but 🏳️‍🌈 #Pansexual
Not religious, but descendant of ✡️ Shoah
Sane, but 🧠 #AuDHD 🤪 #neurodivergent

Hungarian, living in 🦘 #Australia
Former 🎷 #Musician
Published in 🧬 #Science
Creates ✍️ #Art sometimes
GenX 😵

Might flirt with you
🔗 #kink as hell
Pleasure 💦 Dom
https://cake.avris.it/pC3

Speak, friend, and enter

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Joined November 25, 2024

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Profile image:

Scar from Lion King

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Island of Myst

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · May 05, 2026

Replying to @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space

@h3mmy@lgbtqia.space that’s a plum(p) curve right there. No surprise the little soider likes hanging there.

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · May 05, 2026

RE: https://cultofshiv.wtf/@SleepyCatten/116496065167201890 I see this in all sorts of places. Online and offline. Walk, talk, laugh, or do whatever makes it a little bearable. 💜

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SleepyCatten (Metastable, Skill Regression Arc) @SleepyCatten@cultofshiv.wtf

Sorry again for not being here or anywhere really 😔 Life is... still not being fair or kind right now

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · May 05, 2026

Replying to @pathfinder@beige.party

@pathfinder@beige.party In my experience, who grew up constantly hearing I am wrong and I am supposed to do things other ways, asking or even accepting offered help most of my life felt dangerous. It felt the help from others would replace my way of seeing or solving things. The fundamental experience is when help is offered, I did not have a say in how it goes. I believe most of us, who are diagnosed late, are so internalised that help means accepting ‘their’ way of thinking, we have a hard time grasping the concept of someone genuinely wanting to help and willing to do it in our terms. When this happens and someone accepts how I want to solve things, to this day, it feels really strange, unknown. This dynamic, what we bring from our childhood, maybe more detrimental than any rigid thinking or yearning for independence. If help does not look safe, who would blame us for hesitating to accept it? @autistics@fedigroups.social

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · May 04, 2026

Replying to @h3mmy@lgbtqia.space

@h3mmy

. Adding some eyelets if it needs to hold some weight?

@alice

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · May 04, 2026

Replying to @sashag@anarres.family

Eye contact & OOTD Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

@sashag@anarres.family still wow 🤗

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Apr 27, 2026

Replying to @FoxesInLove@social.neonpaws.digital

@FoxesInLove@social.neonpaws.digital oh! Get well!

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Apr 27, 2026

Someone said that masculinity is best described as something that is not feminine. And I can’t stop thinking about that the most cherished and highly regarded trait (for some) is basically empty. It’s just a piece of paper with “not that” written on it.

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Mar 18, 2026

Replying to @RoseyPosey@anarres.family

@RoseyPosey@anarres.family :blobhaj_cathug:

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Mar 15, 2026

Replying to @RickiTarr__dup_16900@beige.party

@RickiTarr@beige.party I know a Mildred. One of the wittiest and smartest people I know. And they’re trans. Nonbinary, to be more precise. Yes, we need more Mildreds.

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Mar 07, 2026

Replying to @xYourEmoGFx@lgbtqia.space

@xYourEmoGFx :floofPat:

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Feb 19, 2026

Replying to @catsalad__dup_5@infosec.exchange

@catsalad@infosec.exchange for a second, I thought those were flames under them instead of legs. Like, what? Revenge of a cat? 🫣🤣

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Feb 14, 2026

Replying to @alice__dup_32859@lgbtqia.space

@alice @AltTextHealthCheck yay \o/

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Feb 04, 2026

Replying to @alice__dup_32859@lgbtqia.space

@alice@lgbtqia.space assertiveness is a big part, but I think not just that. Men¹ do not listen to women. So tha man who repeats your idea first and explains it to you back gets the credit from the others. The only thing that corrects them is if another man points out their behaviour. But it is ingrained so much that even calling out does not stop it from occurring again. Next time, they do the same. 💔

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Jan 05, 2026

Replying to @Azzura@lgbtqia.space

@CosmicCollective@mastodon.social I hope you're okay :neobot_hug_cat:

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Jan 05, 2026

Replying to @echedellelr@masfloss.net

@echedellelr@soc.masfloss.net how would you call it? I also heard deflecting laugh and smile.

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Jan 05, 2026

Replying to @midnakrystal@sadbitches.online

@midnakrystal@sadbitches.online how would you call it? I also heard deflecting laugh and smile.

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Dec 27, 2025

Replying to @alice@lgbtqia.space

@alice the sad truth is if a man can’t profit from your body, you get punished 💜

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Nov 07, 2025

Replying to @me@jaehanley.social

@me@jaehanley.social passports started listing sex/gender as early in the twentieth century. It is tied to the policing of the movement of women. (See League of Nations passport conference, 1920, 1926). What you are probably referring to is the ICAO standard from 1977, which mandates sex markers from participating countries.

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@Azzura@lgbtqia.space · Sep 24, 2025

I am a Gen X man. And I want to tell you how I realised and learned to identify the “survival laugh.”

First, I noticed it in a social setting. I saw a woman laugh at a dangerously unpredictable man, not from joy, but to disarm him. Then I slowly recognised it everywhere: the forced chuckle in a professional meeting, the charming smile in media. This was never joy. This was a survival tactic. She doesn’t enjoy herself. She is deflecting a blow. She is surviving.

So I started asking myself in all sorts of different situations “Would I be laughing right now?”. The answer was almost always no. I can’t help but wonder how other men don’t see it? But the answer is simple: patriarchy.

I do see genuine, unforced laughter or enjoyment as well. But when I see it, I see it more often than not in queer communities, where we all can feel free from those heteronormative pressures. That contrast makes the truth of the “survival laugh” all the more heartbreaking. To everyone who has had to laugh to stay safe, all I can say: I see you, and I’m sorry.

#randomthoughts #society #patriarchy #safeplace #queer #misogyny #survival

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