TubularTittyFrog

yeah but did you use linux when you deleted your cookies?

Or it's about money. people like money and they will do whatever it takes to get it. regardless of generation.

No, it's just your typical double standard shit. If I asked the that, I'd be an asshole sexist pig. If they asked me that, they are just trying to figure out if I am a womanizer or 'inexperienced'. When they do it it's a 'good thing', when I do it, it's 'bad'. And nobody is ever happy with the answer unless your number is basically the same as theirs. If your number is significantly different, than you are 'judging them'. Because what they are really asking, on a deeper level, is you to validate them and their life choices. It's not any different with money either. You have to answer them with the number in their head they have pre-determined is 'correct' or you are not worthy of them, or you are going to steal/abuse them. This is regardless of their own financial status. I make a great salary and am happy with money. But I meet women who think I am going to to steal their money and force them to pay all my bills if I make like 10K less than they do, which is a trivial amount to both of us. But this 'fear' is almost always a projection of her desire to be the person who steals the money and has their bills paid for them, or some deep belief that any man who can't pay her bills for her is not a 'real man'. I meet so many women I am at the same financial level as who tell me I am too poor to date them... it's just hilarious to me at this point. They basically have to come up with a conspiracy theory to justify their greed that a man must make 2-3x their income to be 'good'. And in my dating bracket, that means a guy has to make like 500K salary, which is a top .5% salary. Hence the refrain 'there are no good men'. All the men who are moderate successful making 100-200K are 'losers' who are just going to financial use and abuse her, or something.

i can change myself. I can’t change other people.

I think that’s true today. When I was younger it def felt like people, of any gender, were more willing to try and understand other people.

because gender roles. you aren’t a ‘man’ and she isn’t a ‘woman’ outside of these roles.

it’s not. it means we all suffer because so many of us want to be in happy relationships but the toxic bullshit people believe is totally preventing that.

because she isn’t logical or thoughtful person. She is emotional and biased and has lots of irrational insane beliefs. I dated a woman once who told me eating cereal was unmanly and pathetic. Like granola. I was suppose to eat MEAT and BREAD, and be a MAN.

I had a couple of people apologize to me after she was found out. That was cool. But most didn’t. People love to make up fake bullshit. I had another issue with this other woman… that I never ever even met who kept going around telling other people who I slept with her and how shit in bed it was. I literally never met her, but people told me about it. Maybe she had a crush or something. it was fucking weird.

dating in my early 30s was great. once i got past 35 thought, it all went to shit. 9/10 dates i meet now give me this long premable about how their exes all sucked and i better be better than them. it’s insane. like they will approach me at a bar/event and just start ranting at me. and the 1/10 one that doesn’t… has never dated and has basically no adult life experience. i did go out with a nice lady last month… but she was had zero real life experience and I’m not interested in that either. every normal, happy, well adjust woman I meet is already married. that includes all my female friends over the years. the funny part is they are so chill you don’t even know they are married because they don’t really talk about their SO at all… because they are their own person and don’t have a partner who defines them and from which they derive their worth and self esteem… and if you flirt with them they just point it out and it’s no big deal.

a lot of women think a man with a cat is gay. it’s that stupid.

Nobody is forcing women to get lip injections. They do that themselves.

they are the majority of the single women in my city in their 30s, on dating apps and in real life. They choose me, i don’t choose them. The women I am interested in aren’t usually single. So unless I start an affair or poach someone’s wife, I can only date the women who are single who are like this. I try to date outside of my city, but women in the suburbs usually even worse and they are usually conservative Trump types.

there is a tend of people being aggressive now in dating where they basically like list out all their demands and then expect you to say yes or something. it’s so fucking weird to me to demand that a complete stranger pay your bills for you, but it’s popular on tiktok and all that.

I’ve slept with dozens of women. How am I an incel? I just think women are accountable for themselves and their choices, like all adult human beings. I guess that is incel speak to you? Because what, you believe women are helpless victims of an evil society that forces them to do things they don’t want to do?

Do you have cats? I have cats and I get messages on dating apps from women telling me they like me but I need to get rid of my cat to date them.

No, I’d argue that women who think that way are simple choosing to be miserable and making excuses for it. And that’s their choice.

sorry, do men dog pile on their friends girlfriends for not buying them nice enough gifts? or not giving him enough blowjobs?

some people cannot function as independent human beings. i had girlfriends who basically never in their entire life were ever self-sufficient and when I date I constantly meet women who are looking for a father/caretaker, not a boyfriend/husband.

it’s already permanently awkward

yes. most people are incredibly puritanical. including ‘sex positive’ people.

because you don’t have other options. lots of people, men and women both, are only in a relationship because they don’t feel they have any better options. they believe, and they might be right, that they will never find a future partner, and/or any future partner won’t be as good.

I rejected a girl in college and she went around telling everyone she could that I sexually harassed her. She got her comeuppance and got booted out of school after she did it to other guys too, but it was terrifying for that brief window when people believed her. I’d be eating lunch and random weirdos would come up to me and go ‘I KNOW WHAT YOU DID YOU FUCKING CREEP!’

just ask her out. she will say yes or no. anything that isn’t ‘yes!’ is a no.

I’ve dated plenty of women who lecture me about ‘enthusiastic consent’ and condom use and safe sex. but if you try to practice it with them in the bedroom, they call you a pussy and tell you to grow a pair and how they just want you to make them feel like a rape victim. they are often two-faced. it’s stupid and insane and no well-intention ed person is going to do that. only violent weirdo nutcases are going to want to do that. And plenty of them see nothing wrong with being verbally of physically violent towards men that disappoint them. violence is only bad if it’s done to them, it’s totally OK if they do it to other people, especially men.

my teenage nephews feel exactly the same way. they are completely cynical about romance due to the ridiculous and hypocritical BS that their potential dates put on them.

I don’t meet anyone like that. So I stay single. I was just on a date last week with a woman who made it clear it was my job to serve her, and my ‘reward’ was her company and I should never ask anything of her… this is the most common attitude I get these days.

yep, the woman i quoted above, also was cheating. she also told me it ‘wasn’t her fault’ that she was 175K in debt and that it was my job to help her back it back…

she won’t be happy if she gets what he wants either. unhappy people invent reasons to be unhappy, no matter what happens, good or bad.

What most women don’t get is that men like assertive women. Some men don’t. Just like some women don’t like assertive men. People generally, like other assertive people who are clear about what they want. I don’t have any issue with a woman giving me a clear rejection. But I really hate the fake ‘rejections’ they give me most of the time.

We are on the way. sex and relationship rates are massively declining for Gen Z. I have four newphews 16-20. they have all dated. all but one of them has already sworn off dating because they think it’s total bullshit and they thought it was miserable and no fun to have a girlfriend.

I have dated women who expect me to read their minds and think if I am not Professor X I don’t care about them. One breakup the reason was “I shouldn’t have to ask you for anything, you should already know what I want before I want it. That is what love is!” Then I asked her if she does that for me and she made a face and said “No, you’re a man you don’t deserve that.”

plausible deniability

it doesn’t matter what you want, society dictates the rules. unless you go off the grid or something. then you can go make your perfect society, because there won’t be one.

nobody doesn’t care about money. anyone who says they don’t is a liar and are usually the people who are the most easily bought.

they call any new deal type thinking ‘populism’ and lump it in with Trump. the ’new deal’ rural areas are getting is shitty Data centers fucking up their landscapes and giving them zero jobs.

most people don’t care about sides. they just care about money. and rightfully so. your theory or political stance can’t buy you food or a car or other basic necessities.

No, they aren’t. People genuinely believe this stuff. Just like they believe in astrology. It’s a form of magical thinking, it’s a magical political theory. The core premises being ‘liberation’… which just means being a delusional twat who thinks reality horrible and scary and the ideology helps then deny it. In other words, it’s the equivalent of a child ignore their parents requests res to do chores in the hope the parent/chores will stop asking.

all of these anarchist flavors are a form of relativism where all that matters is people’s individual feelings. it’s a form of solipsism when you start asking questions about it. and when you draw it out, it inevitable leads to consequences that totally contradict it’s tenants. but anarchists… don’t do that… they just feel the feelings, man. anarchism is great if you never think, but some flavors of it regard thinking as an undue burden foist upon people by a unjust society…. hence why you are getting these absurd answer about how gravity is unjust and cruel. I suppose they also regard having to eat/drink/breathe as injustices that ‘society’ forces upon us.

medical tech.

yes. feelings are not love. the yare feelings. love is the actions you take.

it doesn’t exist. but i work for a company that does real work.

people’s fears are often irrational and disproportional to actual dangers.

no dude, you just don’t understand what economics is.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_Nazi_Germany

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Economy_of_Nazi_Germany

You must have a PhD in early 20th century German history, clearly.

No I’m telling you facts that are inconvenient to your narrative that Hitler was absolutely evil and couldn’t possible do anything good. He did lots of good things. The question is, who was it good for? And for the average German they benefited tremendously.

I’ve been independent since 18. I don’t really get how I maintain my independents… it’s never not been an option for me.

what does anything i said have to do with what you said? the fuck?