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Damselfly@blackqueer.life

<p>Black autistic manic pixie dream <a href="https://blackqueer.life/tags/blerd" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>blerd</span></a>. I took an online test that said I was 45% hot and 100% crazy, which is highly accurate. Four degrees and boobs bigger than my brains. Slut but not for you. Bimbo in the smartest way. Angry Black woman. Less damsel than fly, but still a damsel, and not a fly.</p>

Posts

  • Post #4405149

    I think a permanent, monogamous D/s dynamic with the right person would be such a dream. But I can’t see how that person would be dominant while not being domineering, which is all I’ve ever known.

  • Post #4391353

    Who are some good current women rockers? Punk or rock, possibly gay, definitely angry. I need some new music.

  • Post #4387082

    RE: https://mastodon.social/@gwynnion/117039736519098835 Which is, after all, the point.

  • Post #4382192

    It’s not about the bathrooms. It’s not about the sports. It’s not about the convenience. It’s not about the safety. It’s not about the accuracy. It’s not about the consistency. People! 👏 IT 👏 IS 👏 ABOUT 👏 CONTROL!

  • Post #4303474

    RE: https://mastodon.online/@alexwild/117016130702874906 *reads first sentence, glances awkwardly at @LunaDragofelis@void.lgbt

  • Post #4261410

    I’m not sure white people realize this but The International Association of African Diaspora Culture regulates the use of all imagery of Black people. So if there’s a Black person on the bottle of that Barbeque sauce, you can be assured it’s Genuine Black People Food™️

  • Post #4260405

    Okay, it looks like I might be able to bend and see down well enough that I could tattoo a little butterfly head and wings directly above my clitoral hood, and get at least the top of the butterfly wings on either side of my vulva. So my vulva itself would be the butterfly body. I’ll have to think about this because the bottom of the wings will need to be done in a mirror.

  • Post #4246906

    RE: https://kinkycats.org/@aces_funhouse/117009124296738501 Okay, I have a wild response to this. I’m autistic and can’t figure out pickup lines, but I’m a manic pixie autistic, and so am very familiar with saying the most absolutely ridiculous shit. So I actually have a note on my phone where I am storing Tyla’s Comically Unhinged Lesbian Pickup Lines. For example: “Wow you have a lot of tattoos! I bet I have more tattoos that you, but there’s only one way to make sure I’m not lying.” And...

  • Post #4243624

    Relax, it’s on my outer labia. I’m not a monster.

  • Post #4141319

    Politicians out here today like “No matter how we feel about queer people, outright vehicular violence is never an answer. We should seek other ways to live with our queer countryman, such as destructive legislation, censorship of their media, and slow societal rejection.”

  • Post #4140249

    So apparently straight women still put me into the “he’s trying to fuck me” box even post transition, which…well shit.

  • Post #4119303

    Bisexual in that I mostly use Cholula, but every once in a while I enjoy Tapatío.

  • Post #4069341

    RE: https://mastodon.social/@gwynnion/116976116252877834 What that “easier” assumption misses is that closeted trans lesbian still (often, not always) treat women as “other women” while seeing ourselves as women. My entire experience was men (and women too) telling me I interacted with women “wrong,” thought about women “wrong,” treated women “wrong.” Because so much of male interaction with women is from a DeBeauvoiresque Second Sex perspective, where women are objectified, classified, sexual...

  • Post #4068902

    So my ex-wife (still bleeding, that wound) keeps having dates with men and they are men she’s known for a long time and had crushes on for a long time and after one date she’s icked out because they act like…well, men. And I find it so funny that I broke her hetero comfort. Like honey you were married to a woman for 21 years, being with a man is gonna be a bitter pill.

  • Post #4025809

    RE: https://ohai.social/@redsad/116965794325662056 OMG this has happened to me so many fucking times!

  • Post #4016752

    Friend without children: “How’s your first week without the kids going.” Me: “Living alone without my children is as close as I can come to my own personal hell.” Friend: “…I know how much this all sucks.” No you don’t. You really, really don’t.

  • Post #3963649

    Men on Fedi like “What do you mean ‘all unsolicited advice is criticism?’ I give unsolicited advice all the time. Maybe instead of calling it criticism you should…”

  • Post #3951597

    Living alone fucking sucks.

  • Post #3897967

    That Trans femme feeling when someone on the phone calls you “ma’am” and then apologizes for calling you ma’am because they obviously got that wrong. Then switched to “misses.” 😱

  • Post #3888899

    Last night together. She finally cried. I thought she was finally showing sadness about losing me and our family. “I’m sad about losing what we used to have. I’m sad about losing who you were.” Fuck. Cis people will never understand how fucking crushing that is, or how much it burns away.

  • Post #3862345

    The thing that astounds me about this story is the response to it. It’s just amazing the lengths people will go to believe in the inherent goodness of the white dude, and then dramatic incredulity that follows him doing the things everyone knew he was gonna do. Like all the dramatic “I thought he was a good guy” bullshit people post about him is just so tiring. https://www.theregister.com/ai-and-ml/2026/07/15/linus-torvalds-tells-ai-haters-to-fork-off/5271894

  • Post #3838243

    Me: Oh my god I’m so tired I can’t even concentrate and my eyes are closing. Am I sick? Am I dying?! Inner me: Your wife moved out, you’re single parenting three kids, and you stayed up until 2 AM the past two nights painting your bedroom and giving yourself tattoos. 🙄

  • Post #3756939

    White people, When you see a Black person posting something about general about white people centering whiteness, and you jump on them because you, specifically, don’t think you are centering whiteness, then what you have done is literally center whiteness. Like, for real, right there, in the fucking moment. Look, if a person is talking about a societal issue and you literally burst into the room and yelled “THIS IS ABOUT ME, SPECIFICALLY AND I TAKE EXCEPTION!!” then that is what you doing. Th...

  • Post #3696783

    Y’all really gotta stop saying “rest in power” for any random ass white person who kicks the bucket. Let us have a single damn thing.

  • Post #3657291

    Putas before juntas!

  • Post #3657244

    This is fucking dark. https://www.mercurynews.com/2026/07/07/waymo-car-reports-drinking-teens/

  • Post #3630547

    Yo yo! Got a real self-portrait made by our very own @blackpixeldust@mastodon.art! The Damselfly has a face! 😘

  • Post #3584842

    I mean, it is SFW, in that I’ve worn these shorts to work. I do have to be careful when I sit tho. She does tend to want to slip out occasionally.

  • Post #3102862

    I wonder if anyone would be interested in a ground-up review of the 5 different fundamental stress equations that govern rock deformation in #Geology (faulting and folding) and how you can see they are actually all the same equation if you derive each from first principles.