#actuallyadhd

Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · 5d ago

RE: https://cathode.church/@squirrellilly/117033287730143243 Please help

One week to pay the clinic as of today. URGENT Mutual Aid request for August: Food, medicine insecurity. (60/400) by August 15 (0/400) by August 31 (60/800) Total I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http:// paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http:// patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church

Nothing in five days, please reboost! HELP! Patreon is the only money so far this month. Edit: First clinic appt is on Monday and has to be paid off by the end of the week. Please help. Urgent Mutual Aid request for August: Food, medicine insecurity. (60/400) by August 15 (0/400) by August 31 (60/800) Total I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Aug 03, 2026

Nothing in five days, please reboost! HELP! Patreon is the only money so far this month. Edit: First clinic appt is on Monday and has to be paid off by the end of the week. Please help. Urgent Mutual Aid request for August: Food, medicine insecurity. (60/400) by August 15 (0/400) by August 31 (60/800) Total I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · 6d ago

Replying to @squirrellilly@cathode.church

RE: https://cathode.church/@squirrellilly/117033287730143243 We only have 7 days to get $340 so we can pay the clinic and continue to eat. Please help. -jj paypal.me/ramavabray #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 31, 2026

RE: https://cathode.church/@squirrellilly/117011587472975784 We have only hours left to raise $59 so we don't have to skip any days of our medicine. This is a CRITICAL EMERGENCY. Please help. https://paypal.me/ramavabray @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church

I was able to order groceries, all that's left now is prescriptions. We need only $79 by tomorrow, please help. This is still an EMERGENCY until I can afford my life-saving meds. https://paypal.me/ramavabray http://patreon.com/ifwhen @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 30, 2026

Replying to @squirrellilly@cathode.church

I was able to order groceries, all that's left now is prescriptions. We need only $79 by tomorrow, please help. This is still an EMERGENCY until I can afford my life-saving meds. https://paypal.me/ramavabray http://patreon.com/ifwhen @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 30, 2026

(631/800) EMERGENCY indigenous Mutual Aid request for July. Food, medicine insecurity. Need this last $169 by TOMORROW. I'm begging here. (631/800) total, $169 to go I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. http://paypal.me/ramavabray http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st @mutualaidspace

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 29, 2026

(581/800) EMERGENCY Mutual Aid request for July. Food, medicine insecurity. ONLY TWO DAYS LEFT TO RAISE $219 MORE, please HELP! We need: (400/400) by July 15 (Finished!) (181/400) by July 31 (581/800) total, $219 to go I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st @mutualaidspace

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🌈 breaking ranks. @rebekka_m@fnordon.de · Jul 29, 2026

Replying to @atarifrosch@fedifreu.de

@atarifrosch@fedifreu.de @Tami@troet.cafe @sofasophia@fairmove.net um zu schauen, wie sich das kind in soz. situationen verhält, blickrichtungen, körperhaltung, mimik/gestik etc. - geht ja um ne med. diagnose einer störung [terminologie, NICHT meine meinung], die schon seit frühester kindheit vorgelegen haben muss. bei mir zB wenig aussagekräftig, da ich schon ganz klein heavy gemasked hab, u.a. wg #actuallyADHD, vgl. zu fragebögen, die die häufig selbst undiagnostizierten eltern kriegen ["hat sich ihr kind "normal" verhalten?"].

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 29, 2026

:boosts_ok_gay: (541/800) Mutual aid emergency, med insecurity, please boost (CW version) Hover or focus to reveal Sensitive

Only THREE days left, please HELP! We need: (400/400) by July 15 (Finished!) (141/400) by July 31 (541/800) total, $259 to go I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st @mutualaidspace

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 28, 2026

(531/800) EMERGENCY Mutual Aid request for July. Food, medicine insecurity. THREE days left, please HELP! We need: (400/400) by July 15 (Finished!) (131/400) by July 31 (531/800) total, $269 to go I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st @mutualaidspace

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@AncTreat5358@lgbtqia.space · Jul 26, 2026

I'm wondering how many people enjoy gamification in apps, and if there is any correlation with being ND (neurodivergent). #Gamification #ActuallyAutistics #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAuDHD

I'm ND and do enjoy gamification

16.7% (1)

I'm not ND and do not enjoy gamification

0.0% (0)

I'm not ND and do enjoy gamification

16.7% (1)

I'm ND and do not enjoy gamification

66.7% (4)

6 votes Poll closed

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 25, 2026

URGENT mutual aid for July (440/800) Nothing in ~48hrs, SIX days left, please HELP! It's me, JJ, hi. I'm raising money for healthcare and food - the single disability check pays for our family's utilities and nothing more. I am intersex, queer, visibly disabled, biracial, schizophrenic, and probably at least a few other things that society frowns upon. Our house is falling apart, we have no hot water heater, and I'm very immunocompromised. We need 360 more to survive this second half of July - This includes doctors, prescriptions, basic medical supplies, groceries, and dogfood. You can help! First there's Paypal. It's fast, and you can even send just a couple of dollars. Any amount helps. https://paypal.me/ramavabray And then there's Patreon, where our music and art and such go. You can see all the projects going on. Did you know I've been slowly working on writing enough music to be considered an album this year? Maybe I'll succeed! https://patreon.com/ifwhen So please help. Give if you're able, and boost. We're really struggling and need your help. You're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a great day. @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #ActuallySchizophrenic #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 22, 2026

RE: https://cathode.church/@squirrellilly/116937197793170339

I feel slightly less crap today. We are surviving, but still pretty far from where we need to be, and soon. -jj @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #ActuallySchizophrenic #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church

Urgent mutual aid for July (400/800) It's me, JJ, hi. I'm raising money for healthcare and food - the single disability check pays for our family's utilities and nothing more. I am intersex, queer, visibly disabled, biracial, schizophrenic, and probably at least a few other things that society frowns upon. Our house is falling apart, we have no hot water heater, and I'm very immunocompromised. We need 400 more to survive this second half of July - This includes doctors, prescriptions, basic medical supplies, groceries, and dogfood. You can help! First there's Paypal. It's fast, and you can even send just a couple of dollars. Any amount helps. https://paypal.me/ramavabray And then there's Patreon, where our music and art and such go. You can see all the projects going on. Did you know I've been slowly working on writing enough music to be considered an album this year? Maybe I'll succeed! https://patreon.com/ifwhen So please help. Give if you're able, and boost. We're really struggling and need your help. You're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a great day. @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #ActuallySchizophrenic #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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Jess👾 @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange · Jul 21, 2026

It's some kinda hot garbage that "The World Federation of ADHD International Consensus Statement: 208 Evidence-based conclusions about the disorder" states: "ADHD is more common in males and occurs in 5.9 % of youth and 2.5 % of adults." What, do you honestly think happens to #ADHD children? It's a chronic mental health condition that you don't like ... grow out of. All you're measuring in that data is that your measurement metrics suck and only capture the ADHD diagnosis of people who visibly struggle enough to not be able to build systems that survive school and capitalism (no matter how traumatic those systems may leave you). I'm always disappointed in the neurotypical and pathologizing medical community when it comes to giving a shit about marginalized people. https://www.adhd-federation.org/publications/international-consensus-statement.html #actuallyadhd #neurodivergent

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 17, 2026

Urgent mutual aid for July (400/800) It's me, JJ, hi. I'm raising money for healthcare and food - the single disability check pays for our family's utilities and nothing more. I am intersex, queer, visibly disabled, biracial, schizophrenic, and probably at least a few other things that society frowns upon. Our house is falling apart, we have no hot water heater, and I'm very immunocompromised. We need 400 more to survive this second half of July - This includes doctors, prescriptions, basic medical supplies, groceries, and dogfood. You can help! First there's Paypal. It's fast, and you can even send just a couple of dollars. Any amount helps. https://paypal.me/ramavabray And then there's Patreon, where our music and art and such go. You can see all the projects going on. Did you know I've been slowly working on writing enough music to be considered an album this year? Maybe I'll succeed! https://patreon.com/ifwhen So please help. Give if you're able, and boost. We're really struggling and need your help. You're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a great day. @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #ActuallySchizophrenic #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid

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🌈 breaking ranks. @rebekka_m@fnordon.de · Jul 16, 2026

Woohoooooo - a new #murderbot book by Martha Wells got released this year and I hadn't heard about it until now!!1 It's called Platform Decay and [without having read or listened to it] one of my warmest #rebcommendations, because MURDERBOT, AND Martha Wells, and OMG OMG etc. \o/////////// #MarthaWells #bookstodon #fiction #actuallyAutistic #actuallyADHD

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Jess👾 @JessTheUnstill@infosec.exchange · Jul 15, 2026

It's not that "everyone is #adhd these days". It's that you just so happen to be hanging around in the places lots and lots of #actuallyadhd people hang out. Which might be something you introspect a bit further about why you find those places and people comfortable.

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 14, 2026

(210/800) We need your help right now. We have to pay the clinic and pharmacy tomorrow so we can continue to Be Alive and not have any gaps in our medicine. On top of that we are nearly out of food. I had hoped that disability pride month would be a little easier somehow, but we're totally fucked. Please help us. We're $190 short of where we need to be tomorrow. http://paypal.me/ramavabray http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost. We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 13, 2026

(160/800) EMERGENCY Mutual Aid request for July. Food, medicine insecurity, $240 MORE needed in TWO DAYS, PLEASE HELP We need: (160/400) by July 15 (0/400) by July 31 I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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Clover System @squirrellilly@cathode.church · Jul 12, 2026

(110/800) EMERGENCY Mutual Aid request for July. Food, medicine insecurity, $290 needed in THREE DAYS, PLEASE HELP We need: (110/400) by July 15 (0/400) by July 31 I'm JJ. I am intersex, visibly disabled, queer, biracial, poor, neurodivergent, immunocompromised, and probably a few other things society frowns upon. My household/found family is living in the hostile US south on a single disability check that only just covers utilities. We have no food benefits, and my medicine and clinic visits are really expensive. The most immediate way to help is Paypal: http://paypal.me/ramavabray And Patreon helps us continue to stream and make cool stuff like music and pixel art longterm: http://patreon.com/ifwhen Please give if you're able, and boost! We need your support and you're saving our lives. Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a good day/night/etc. #disability #MutualAid #MutualAidRequest #IndigenousMutualAid #TransMutualAid #TransCrowdFund #DisabilityCrowdfund #neuroDivergent #ActuallyADHD #LGBTQIA #poverty #SettlerSaturday #DisabilityMutualAid #TransCrowdfund #HelpFolksLive2026 #DisabilityMutualAid #Queer #QueerMutualAid @mutualaid@fedigroups.social @mutualaid@ovo.st

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I'm wondering how many people enjoy gamification in apps, and if there is any correlation with being ND (neurodivergent). #Gamification #ActuallyAutistics #ActuallyADHD #ActuallyAuDHD

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