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Sutter

@sutter@meemu.org

Just another furry nerd living in the Boston area. Talks about music, computers, math, tabletop board & card games, kitschy old media, and whatever else comes to mind. Demi, gay, and single.

This is a personal account and I talk about personal things here, including mental health (C-PTSD), neuroatypicality, diet, relationships, and sex. Please use your discretion in choosing whether you follow me here.

88 Followers

122 Following

16 Posts

Joined October 22, 2023

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he/him

Location:

Somerville, MA

Website:

https://grrweasel.net

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Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · May 08, 2026

Replying to @CyrikCroc@dragonchat.org

@CyrikCroc@dragonchat.org @tilton@fursuits.online The harm already done to people, communities, and the natural environment due to the proliferation of generative LLM systems and infrastructure outweighs any potential value such programs might or might not deliver someday.

Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Apr 07, 2026

Badgers are REAL

Lovely art: @hi_cial@donphan.social
Lovely sticker printing: Bear and Beagle

donphan.social

Keeper of the orb (@hi_cial@donphan.social) - donphan.social

Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Apr 06, 2026

Replying to @scottsthoughts@better.boston

@scottsthoughts@better.boston I can speak from experience, Rotterdam is a great city to visit and spend a week working from and exploring. It's a quick train ride down from Schiphol, and there's lots of stuff to do and see (and eat and drink). Less touristy than Amsterdam too.

Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Apr 01, 2026

Figured now's as good a time as any to make a new #introduction post...

Hello! My name's Sutter. I'm some guy who pretends to be a cartoon badger on the Internet. Interests include music, computers, math, tabletop board & card games, and kitschy old media. My day job is grant administration for a nonprofit.

I'm a proud demisexual gay man. Being queer is an important part of who I am and how I find community. There's no LGB without the T. I'm not kinky myself, but I am kink-friendly.

Furries have been my main social group for most of my life, and I can't imagine socializing any other way. Sometimes I try drawing digitally as a hobby.

I live in the Boston area, and while I'm fairly introverted I do occasionally enjoy going out and getting some face-to-face time with people in my community. You can say hi to me!

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Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Mar 18, 2026

Replying to @ShadowJonathan@tech.lgbt

@ShadowJonathan Something to that effect has been in my signature for a while. So far nobody's commented on it.

Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Mar 11, 2026

Replying to @keirFox@tiggi.es

@keirFox Yikes. I've got nothing, but I'll boost in case anyone following me knows.

Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Mar 05, 2026

Replying to @sutter@meemu.org

The more I think about it, the more I want to close up shop on bsky entirely. I'm only on there out of obligation. My profile's a mess. It adds so much stress to my life. I do not under any circumstances want to hold Influence over an Audience of Followers. Being on stage feels unsafe. I just want to have daily-enough contact with individual people I know and trust, and also have the opportunity to meet new people who I have things in common with. Wasn't that how things used to be on the Internet before the proliferation of mainstream social media? I want that back.

Sutter @sutter@meemu.org · Feb 28, 2026

I've been told many times not to beat myself up for not being further along in my "healing journey" (whatever that means) than I am in the present moment. It's not realistic to expect a complete transformation in personality just because I had a moment or two of clarity about what I've been through and how it affected me.

I'm having a hard time with it tonight. I keep being told I'm not alone, and I keep telling others they're not alone, and I still feel so very alone. Human connection still feels off-limits to me.

In order for things to get better for me, I need to form safe, trusting connections with others who want that too. But tonight I'm feeling like that's impossible. Like a "safe and trusting connection" is not something that even really exists. Or if it does, it's reserved for the Good People who know better than to get involved with trash like me.

I know none of that is true, but it weighs heavily on me. I just don't want to feel alone anymore.