# Trans (she/her) \\ # Lesbian \\ # Demisexual (?) \\ # Idemromantic (?) \\ # Intersex \\ # poly \\ # TwinCities \\ # Math \\ # Knitting \\ # Juggling \\ # Glass # Flameworking \\ # Coding when I have to \\ dilettante I'm just trying to figure out how to make friends and have a sense of community as a 40-year-old. Feel free to say hi. Flirting is okay, but I probably won't recognize it. Favorites are nice; replies are better. I've turned on follow requests out of an increased sense of caution about what I post, but if you are a real person who has some evidence of using fedi and isn't a bigot, I'll most likely accept when I get to it. Bonus points if you are queer or otherwise cool. I'll accept DMs on about the same standards I use for follows.
# Trans (she/her) \\ # Lesbian \\ # Demisexual (?) \\ # Idemromantic (?) \\ # Intersex \\ # poly \\ # TwinCities \\ # Math \\ # Knitting \\ # Juggling \\ # Glass # Flameworking \\ # Coding when I have to \\ dilettante I'm just trying to figure out how to make friends and have a sense of community as a 40-year-old. Feel free to say hi. Flirting is okay, but I probably won't recognize it. Favorites are nice; replies are better. I've turned on follow requests out of an increased sense of caution about what I post, but if you are a real person who has some evidence of using fedi and isn't a bigot, I'll most likely accept when I get to it. Bonus points if you are queer or otherwise cool. I'll accept DMs on about the same standards I use for follows.
I guess it is not really worth favoriting toots while there is no notification going to the author. Perhaps I should just start responding "This is my favorite toot" instead