That Frisian Girl-ish

thatfrisiangirlish@blahaj.zone

ae/aer - she/her - bowl of queer letter soup, hot, neurospicy ⚠️ feral nonbinary, bity "Disclaimer: Any similarity to gendered concepts is coincidental, and is not to be taken as my endorsement thereof." "Is it gay to be attracted to me? I don't know, kiss me, and tell me how that feels." Fair warning to minors, very occasionally this account has lewd content, and I'm a cranky old bitch yelling at people. No politics...? Yeah, no, YES politics, because other people chose to brand practically all my life as "political", an "issue", or a "debate". Below here, lots of pride flags: Progress Pride, Transfem, Nonbinary, Girlflux, Asexual, Bisexual, Lesbian, Polyamory :progress_flat: :transfem_flat: :nb_flat: :girlflu

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Post #4135818
Unsere lebendige Community verachtet ihr, aber unsere Toten und Verletzten nehmt ihr gerne als Vorwand für euren Scheiß-Rassismus, eure Fascho-Überwachungsfantasien, den nächsten Schachzug in der Abschaffung der Demokratie. Und morgen hlren wir, wie selber Schuld wir gewesen wären, und dann kehrt ihr zurück zu eurem Abscheu vor uns. Wir sind niemals Teil eurer Welt, aber ihr nehmt euch von uns, was euch passt. Und deshalb lassen wir euch nicht auf unseren Prides mitlaufen.
Post #3560353
"When you're walking down the street, you show your face to the world, so of course it's fair game for anyone to just plant a huge wet kiss on it, right? We provide these robots that will kiss you anytime you step out the door! It's wonderful! Of course, if you don't want that, you can always opt out by wearing this special shirt that you basically have to find out about by one of our robots kissing you first." -- people who don't have any understanding of consent
Post #3560352
Heat aggravation 76587: On this day 11 of the still ongoing heat warning, my skin gets really irritated from all the fucking sweat. Itchy, sticky, sweaty, wet, stinky, hot, loud, bright... it's just fucking sensory hell.
Post #3560351
I seem to have misplace my witch hat. Well. Nothing for it, I'll have to actually put this pigsty in order.
Post #3560350
I've been taking care of my computer stuff for roundabout 30 years now, and that gave me some insights. Any hardware can and will fail. Any box you can't open and service isn't yours. Any cable will fail. Any wired connection is preferable to wireless. There is no such thing as "autodetect". Defaults are an OK start if you can change them, if you can't they suck. Any file you have no backup of is to be considered lost. Anything you have on subscription is to be conside...
Post #3560349
Sometimes I feel I should start making youtube videos about this kind of stuff, but then, you'd have to hear me talk - you're better off reading this. Recently, algorithmic social media has thrown a lot of #Cyberpunk2077 at me - and specifically, a lot of hot takes on Songbird. How awful she is. How bad it is that she swindles everyone, specifically dupes V. How reckless she is to run away with that little Blackwall problem. How players kill her, or send her off back to Myers. And I&#3...
Post #3560348
I need people to understand that #feminism is not as easily framed as "men vs. women". The enemy is #patriarchy, which is a system that is propped up, yes, mostly by men, but also by women who gladly lick boots to defend crumbs they're thrown from the table, and assimilationsists of every marginalized community imaginable. The victims of patriarchy are fucking everybody, even and especially those who adhere most to its principles. So being a victim does not qualify for being anti-...
Post #3560347
#WordWeavers 2026-07-01: If your MC wore teeshirts, what would be on their favorite one? I'll have to yank Pergene into this world for that, show her options and all... But all that done, her favourite would be one that was less designed than more constructed along the lines of use for workouts. Formfitting cut, mesh elements, moisture wicking, cooling material, the works. With a print resembling armor. In purple. ... if this seems weirdly specific to you, that's because she just took...
Post #3560346
#WordWeavers 2026-07-02: What’s the hardest emotion for you to write and why? Not per se hard to write, but write in a way that conveys things in their full depth and intensity... any of them. I'm an AuDHDer. People have difficulty reading my emotions, because they don't happen like they do for others, apparently. But I assure you, they are there, they are big. They often are so big that they get stuck in the door and have difficulty squeezing themselves in, they are big enough to fill...
Post #3560345
I just got a reminder that my name became my legal name seven years ago, alongside updated gender marker. Being in Germany, it went according to the at the time medicalizing, humiliating law that mandated a legal procedure involving a judge. The judge in my mind being the most sympathetic, friendly person in it all, but that was me being lucky. 7 years, already. Just 7 years, too. A lifetime ago. So much happened since, in so little time. It's a little dizzying to imagine. And I nearly comp...
Post #3545232
Of all the shows we might have watched as kids, surprisingly Scooby Doo is the one that I feel prepared us best for real life: A stoner with constant munchies talking to his dog, a pair of lesbians, and a wannabe jock discover over and over again that bad things are caused by greedy, old, white men.
Post #2810760
So, here's one of my headcanons about the Alliance in #MassEffect being abso-fucking-lutely not as squeaky clean as a lot of people think. You keep getting hints that Cerberus "was" an Alliance Black Ops. We don't get an all too clear picture how long, exactly that went, although I'd say that Cerberus definitely has unilaterally cut ties before attacking the Mars archives in ME3. The whole time Shepard basically gets to roam free even around the Citadel after flying in on...
Post #2711822
#Transition is for #trans people the process in which they stop acting. We've been handed one of two scripts (colour coded), and it was the wrong one - think Vin Diesel doing MacBeth, hilarious for a stunt, really not something you can keep up for a living. And then we... stop doing that. At least that's what it should be. Instead, often enough, we get the prospect of passing. Dressing a certain way. Picking clothes that will hide certain features. Stop acting one way, and starting to a...
Post #2622285
Anything you post here could be the first contact someone has with you. A first impression, the foundation of a new friendship. Or you could run into my posts. In which case I'm sorry, and also slightly amused.
Post #2358196
In school we heard "you won't carry a calculator around all the time" as reason for doing math on paper. OK, that was a total goof, because now we all have phones that, potentially, can serve as arbitrarily powerful calculator anytime and anywhere. But that's not the gotcha you think it is. I don't think teachers were just blind to technological progress here, they were fully aware of one thing that they neglected to teach: it's a tool, and a tool is only as powerful a...
Post #2219440
So, the people who played that utter misery of an ending (not badly written - it is just an awful ending) encounter Panam being absent. Whatever the real world reason for that is, it feels highly uncharacteristic. Even worse, the credits call by Mitch feels eerily out of character. The Panam we got to know wouldn't pass up an opportunity to chew V out in the worst possible ways, promising hellfire and brimstone. Instead we get... Mitch. A veteran who is not likely to hold back bad news, eve...
Post #2044321
"Hold the fuck up!" ... I'm the fuck up. Hold me?
Post #1973993
I'm an adult like a tomato is a fruit - technically yes, but not really.
Post #1876063
I was called pretty today! ... well, the statement was "You're pretty annoying", but I take what I get.
Post #1724491
"Autistic people don't understand hierarchies." Ho, ho, hold the fuck up, I understand hierarchies and their uses, I just don't see what you fuckmuppet with the skills and spine of a wet sponge do all the way up there, and the people working their asses off knowing their shit are doing down there. I also don't see why the person responsible with their decisions isn't the one taking the consequences for their decisions if they're bad - like, isn't that 95% of y...
Post #1613259
Look, at heart I'm a commie, and I would like nothing more than a world free of states. But at the current moment where we can't even do a social democracy properly, that would be like talking to single cell organisms about myelin sheaths, and for very much the same reason: we need, as a species, a whole lot more development that likely won't happen within any kind of foreseeable horizon. Unless we recognize all of our own as our own, and even have a desire to treat all of our own...
Post #1613258
I'm getting old. I want flip phones back. No, not one of those old people phones, and not one of those folding screen abominations. Just a decent, modern phone that is not just a huge slab of screen, and not grandma-locked down. Dash of design. Maybe like my last flip phone, but, you know... up to the times.
Post #1613257
#gender is a performance, and mine is improv comedy.
Post #1613256
"Oh, you think what I say is annoying? You only have to do anything about that if I actually say something. I have to suffer all the bullshit that I don't say, as well, everything, all the time!"
Post #1613255
For the longest time, that one specific scene irked me with how it always stood out to me: the final showdown between Reed and V in front of the rocket to the moon, Songbird between them, mostly unconscious. It took me a while to understand why it stood out so much, even over every other moment. To me, it plays out the exact internal drama that kicked off my transition. Every character, a representation of me. Reed, the golem that was me. Paragon of the course that I followed so long, the logi...
Post #1613253
"Fatherless behavior?" You better hope I don't behave like my father, because his strongest claim to fidelity was that he had the same mistress for ten years.
Post #886545
One of my biggest fails in identifying my own autism was how I thought that I didn't take everything literally. I took that aspect too literally to apply it to myself. I took taking things literally too literally, and I think it doesn't really get any more ridiculously literally than that. #actuallyAutistic
Post #866005
"You can't change sex!" Well, yeah, I can't unfuck your mom.
Post #767455
Nennt mich eine bitch, aber ich wäre absolut für eine Bundespräsidentin Merkel, nur um Merz flennen zu sehen.
Post #767453
Stop it with the "female gaze". Firstly, most don't get it right, anyway, and secondly, they're actually called lesbians, you sound like a Ferengi.