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Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad.
My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Recovery and kink. Let's talk about it.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
I've got a question for the #hypno fans out there. I've got a few tracks to record, and I may as well add a couple more while I'm set up. What topics are you itching for?
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
When I started posting educational videos on Instagram, the bullshit DMs started. Yesterday an entitled elitist gay made the wrong decision and said some things that I couldn't remain silent about.
His account (along with his 6 or 7K followers) was removed right after I showed him how easy it was to find anything I wanted to know about him in a matter of minutes.
Brace yourself. Daddy's pissed.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
The Bastian Protocols explores power, submission, ritual, desire, and the difficult truths revealed when someone chooses to kneel. This series is not your typical erotic fiction. It explores domination and submission with a deliberate eye on trauma and how leather and kink works through a trauma-informed lens.
Find it on the new House of Integritas Substack at
https://houseofintegritas.substack.com/p/the-prospect
#TheBastianChronicles #LeatherFiction #DominanceAndSubmission #EroticFiction #HouseofIntegritas
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Did you know that HIV actually made the leap from primates to humans in the 1920s? Or that it was already in NYC by 1970? Or that Canadian flight attendant Gaëtan Dugas was misidentified as "Patient Zero" and blamed for causing AIDS because of a typo?
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
New video in my Domination & submission series: The Dominant
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
My bull and I had an incredible opera date last night, seeing the premiere of an afrofuturist opera called Lalovavi. Lush, funny, emotional, and poignant as the libretto was split between English and Tutnese, a secret language of enslaved Africans.
I sincerely hope this masterpiece is picked up around the country.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
And just like that, without fanfare, I finished writing the first draft of a 40,000 word book on intimacy and spirituality in power exchange.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
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Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
To love you is to witness devotion in real time. You show up with thoughtfulness, care, and a kind of steady love that doesn’t ask for attention but deserves all of it. Being your Dad is something I don’t take lightly. What we have means the world to me. I’m grateful to call you my bull, and that I get to share this beautiful life with you.
Happy Birthday, Dan (and Jasper!)
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Dinner out at one of our favorite restaurants in Cincinnati to celebrate my bull's birthday this weekend.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
No, 'MasterDaddy@mastodon.social', neither you nor the dozen or so other iterations of the same AI bullshit are welcome.
It was bad enough in the late '90s when we had to go after the online 'masters' preying on the uninformed in the chat rooms. It's just more of the same predatory bullshit in a new form.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
I know there are a few kinksters in recovery in the 'verse, so I'd like to share that I'm launching a free newsletter for people who find themselves feeling like outsiders in their own recovery. Real recovery is not all-or-nothing, and it's not perfect. It doesn't have to be. FORWARD is Recovery for Humans.
https://forwardrecovery.substack.com/p/perfectionism-and-addiction-the-hidden
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
A text exchange today reminded me of a deep dive I had done a few years back into the fallacy of the "alpha male". So I pulled up that work, brought it forward to 2026 and published it. If you've ever wondered where it all started or how we got to where we are today, this one's for you.
https://themichaelnolan.substack.com/p/the-fable-of-the-alpha-male
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
As a follow up to my recent post about my cholesterol and blood pressure, I wanted to share an update on my cholesterol numbers.
https://themichaelnolan.substack.com/p/the-cholesterol-chronicles-test-results
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
No one is worthless. Power exchange dynamics cannot ignore mental health, and we must temper fantasy with reality. subs are not worthless; I would argue that if a sub was indeed worthless, they would be of no value to a Dom. In fact, a worthless/valueless individual would be a liability to anyone they enter into a relationship with.
Know your worth, know your value, and guard your mental health. It's just as precious as your physical health.
Paterfamilias of The House of Integritas. Naturally dominant polyamorous husband, Sir, & Dad. My family's core values are Honor, Integrity & Service. Respect and consent are non-negotiable.
