@SecondUniverse@autistics.life I like your second idea better than your first. So many things are unecessarily gendered already without adding to it. I lived in a community that spoke a language with no gender (so one word for he, she, it, him her, his, its). How refreshing that was! I also realised how in English we always ask the gender of a baby so we know how to refer to it, making gender a big deal right from day one of life outside the womb.😞 #gender #language