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Coon
@MeBigbrain@poa.st · May 02
Hey @madison@nicecrew.digital is this your salty sibling
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Mads
@madison@nicecrew.digital · May 03
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I went to the doctor last week to get checked out and make sure I was safe to have 5th baby and 5th C-section. The doctor cleared me and I have more tests to do but it seems all daddy-o. Anyways I told my mom and she's like "I literally die with worry when you're pregnant Bec you're so sick and I hate you being so miserable" and everyone has their 2 cents "you already have 2 & 2" like nigga 
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Grumblesock
@Grumblesock@clew.lol · May 03
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@madison@nicecrew.digital @MeBigbrain@poa.st @flux_the_cat@poa.st I am glad that you got the all clear. I kind of understand the worry, the complications you have do make it a little nail biting, even for me and I'm just a friend on the other side of the planet. I am very happy for you though. At least you'll have a different hospital this time and I bet that this lot are far, far better than the last team. Admittedly that's a low bar but still this next one should be a cake walk for you all compared to that last coven of psychos.
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Mads
@madison@nicecrew.digital · May 03
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Thank you!! Yeah Tyler said he never had anxiety about me dying in childbirth until now. So it was a simple thing to go get checked out and talk with the new doctor. I'm thankful he has his own little practice once a week for pregnant women. Otherwise I'd have to drive the next town over. Way more convenient 🙏 he was nice. Maybe a little goofy. I've never had a male baby doctor before
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Grumblesock
@Grumblesock@clew.lol · May 03
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@madison@nicecrew.digital @MeBigbrain@poa.st @flux_the_cat@poa.st Yeah I'm not surprised after that last time, anyone would be anxious after all that. Still it seems you've got a far better set up going there now and that's huge.
It's a dude?? that is unusual. I used to work at the nursing and midwifery council here in the UK and there was one male midwife (even typing that now feels weird) that used to chair committees. He was very competent, a decent bloke, and had 6 kids of his own but it's still an unusual choice of work for a fella to chose. He was short though, like barely clearing 5 ft tall. 😒
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Mads
@madison@nicecrew.digital · May 03
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Yeah I think it's weird for a male to be a baby doctor. First baby I went through homebirth midwives and loved them so much. But unfortunately I require a doctor with a lot of experience to cut me open 
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Grumblesock
@Grumblesock@clew.lol · May 03
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@madison@nicecrew.digital @MeBigbrain@poa.st @flux_the_cat@poa.st For the surgical stuff a dude is fine but for these of it.. it's just off to me.
I'll keep you guys in my prayers, petal. I am sorry that the typical method of giving birth isn't an option for you but I am so pleased that it is still an option. I really do wish you and the family all of the best. You'll have to get a tiny baby dust mask so that the little one isn't born spitting up half a sand dune every day or so. 
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Mads
@madison@nicecrew.digital · May 03
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Hahahahahha! Thank you 🙏 the sand storms are so bad. But I think the plan today is for Tyler to put him the boards for the wind blocks. He set like 8 posts yesterday 
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Grumblesock
@Grumblesock@clew.lol · May 03
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@madison@nicecrew.digital @MeBigbrain@poa.st @flux_the_cat@poa.st Splendid, he works fast that man. A shame that the elms didn't all take as well as I had imagined but the synthetic wind breaks should make a fair bit of difference, I hope.
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Mads
@madison@nicecrew.digital · May 03
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Well I think only 1 is dead but it's still better than nothing!
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Grumblesock
@Grumblesock@clew.lol · May 03
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@madison@nicecrew.digital @MeBigbrain@poa.st @flux_the_cat@poa.st Oh that's not as bad as I had thought. Some plants can look dead as dust and yet still recover so do keep watering it and it might just get a second wind.