Sutter

sutter@meemu.org

<p>Just another furry nerd living in the Boston area. Talks about music, computers, math, tabletop board & card games, kitschy old media, and whatever else comes to mind. Demi, gay, and single.</p><p>This is a personal account and I talk about personal things here, including mental health (C-PTSD), neuroatypicality, diet, relationships, and sex. Please use your discretion in choosing whether you follow me here.</p>

Posts

Post #2530591
Figured now&#39;s as good a time as any to make a new #introduction post... Hello! My name&#39;s Sutter. I&#39;m some guy who pretends to be a cartoon badger on the Internet. Interests include music, computers, math, tabletop board &amp; card games, and kitschy old media. My day job is grant administration for a nonprofit. I&#39;m a proud demisexual gay man. Being queer is an important part of who I am and how I find community. There&#39;s no LGB without the T. I&#3...
Post #984013
Badgers are REAL Lovely art: @hi_cial Lovely sticker printing: Bear and Beagle
Post #448989
News today had me seething. Last weekend I called my mom, who told me she prefers to just ignore all the bad news that&#39;s going on. That also had me seething. Today I wrote a to-the-point email to her, explaining the reality of life for LGBTQ+ Americans. I linked to news sources specifically about the campaign against trans people, and also to the Wikipedia article about the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft. Up until now, I thought it too risky to bring up her GOP-voting family members...
Post #448988
&quot;average mathematician discovers 3 infinities a year&quot; factoid actualy just statistical error. average mathematician discovers 0 infinities per year. Infinities Georg, who lives in Halle &amp; discovers over 10,000 each day, is an outlier adn should not have been counted
Post #448987
Ehhhh I&#39;m not in love with how much I overshare on bsky. Sensitive subject matter that seems fine here (behind an appropriate CW, natch) feels like it&#39;s exposed to way too much normie attention there. I don&#39;t want attention from an audience of normie strangers, I want connection with people in spaces where it&#39;s safe to be myself. My profile bio has been updated to reflect that. Someday I will want to share art somewhere again and, assuming it&#39;s still saf...
Post #448986
I want to draw pinup art of naked animal people that&#39;s the right size to set as a desktop wallpaper.
Post #448984
I&#39;ve been told many times not to beat myself up for not being further along in my &quot;healing journey&quot; (whatever that means) than I am in the present moment. It&#39;s not realistic to expect a complete transformation in personality just because I had a moment or two of clarity about what I&#39;ve been through and how it affected me. I&#39;m having a hard time with it tonight. I keep being told I&#39;m not alone, and I keep telling others they&#39;re no...
Post #441113
Babylon 5 thoughts: As I&#39;ve grown, I&#39;ve come to appreciate the motivations of the Vorlons and Shadows. They&#39;re not incomprehensibly alien at all. There are real-life manipulative bullies who stoke conflicts in order to isolate people who might form alliances. It&#39;s an understandable human behavior. The Vorlons don&#39;t speak in mysterious riddles at all! They just suck at communicating effectively. Their whole sense of self-worth is staked on maintaining an...