How to react if a person calls you "degenerate"
2026-03-13 16:02 UTC
Replies (22)
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@agamemnonymous__dup_12092@sh.itjust.works 2026-03-13 17:43
“Your opinion has no value”, or some variety thereof. Then get on with your day.
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@ashenone@lemmy.ml 2026-03-13 19:32
Tell them to dengerate these nutz
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@Diva@lemmy.ml 2026-03-13 19:37
If it’s not being used ironically or self deprecatingly I generally assume the person in question is a fash or some sort of right winger
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@Cowbee@lemmy.ml 2026-03-14 12:12
They’re probably far-right, which is why you find people in Nazi bars like MeanwhileOnGrad using it frequently: (credit to @Diva@lemmy.ml )
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@Doomsider@lemmy.world 2026-03-13 16:22
No, it is a general insult usually aimed at your moral character.
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@Una@europe.pub 2026-03-13 17:23
meow just meow at them
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@GreyShuck@feddit.uk 2026-03-13 16:19
I associate this with fascists and right-wingers going back a few generations as being broadly equivalent to 'woke' these days: i.e. anything vaguely progressive that they didn't like. So, without additional context, my reaction would be to assume that the person saying this was a fascist - and therefore to treat any further interactions accordingly - and to wear the term with honour.
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@socsa@piefed.social 2026-03-13 17:36
Throw a dildo at them
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@faythofdragons@slrpnk.net 2026-03-13 21:12
I say "thank you, I try" and blow them a flirty kiss.
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@teawrecks@sopuli.xyz 2026-03-14 06:19
My friends and I call each other degenerate when we do things that are degenerate. Like playing wow until 6am. Or buying a taco bell burrito with the intention of reheating it the next day. Or binging some garbage reality show. It's all in good fun. I wouldn't take it personally, it's just a term that jokingly means "a person who has their shit together wouldn't be doing that", but we all have those things and they're fun to take note of and laugh about.
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@apotheotic@beehaw.org 2026-03-13 17:40
"You wanna fuck me so bad it makes you look stupid"
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@gray@lemmy.ml 2026-03-13 18:19
No decent person would use the word degenerate. Just don't interact if you can
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@barkybeak@lemmy.zip 2026-03-13 16:24
I commonly get called names and have disparaging comments fly my way. At first, I let them get under my skin. I would get depressed. But I realized this is exactly what they want me to feel. They won. Now when someone “makes a joke” I just tell myself they won’t win and realize whatever credibility or trust I had for this person is lost. They are wholly uneducated and I make the choice not to engage with them any further. I win this round. Not them
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@64bithero@lemmy.world 2026-03-13 17:01
When I was young I was bullied every single day. For the longest time It bothered me. Then one day something changed, I stopped caring. People would throw out insults and jokes and I just dissociate myself. I’d hear it and if it was at all funny I’d laugh. After about a month I was entirely left alone. Those people were never nice to me and never showed me respect. But the fact they got 0 rise at me meant they got bored. So I’d suggest to anyone to not take whatever personally and just shrug it off. Eventually in my experience it stops ! I will say this may not work for everyone. And for some this may just escalate to even more horrible things. But it might be worth a shot ? And obviously change course if things go south ..
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@deathbird@mander.xyz 2026-03-14 07:34
If thrown out sincerely, or with real vitriol, avoid. It's pretty dehumanizing in such a sense. But if it's was a friend teasing you then that's something else, just throw some insult back at them.
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@MisterNeon@lemmy.world 2026-03-13 18:54
What did you do?
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@disregardable@lemmy.zip 2026-03-13 16:21
Yeah, that means the person is a really hostile right winger. If they're upset at you, that means you're doing good.
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@Caketaco@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2026-03-13 18:57
“I like eating grilled cheese and playing with monster trucks”
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@yermaw@sh.itjust.works 2026-03-14 08:58
"I'll remember that."
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@RiverRock@lemmy.ml 2026-03-13 20:02
I laugh and call them a loser
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@5in1k@lemmy.zip 2026-03-13 17:58
When I call someone a degenerate gambler I am not going after the disabled.
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@Nemo@slrpnk.net 2026-03-13 16:45
Call them a bigot and thumb your nose while walking away backwards. But don't turn your back on them, they might be mad enough to jump you.