Post #3184176

2026-05-13 17:58 UTC

First thing to realize about jeans…You're not buying them off the rack anymore. Sorry, it just probably won't work. If you try on 37 different cuts and sizes in the store, you may get lucky and find one. Second thing: Unfortunately, you have to try on like 37 different cuts and sizes. Because every company makes them different. Third: Your waist is above your illiac crest now, not on your hips. It's gonna feel weird. You need to get used to high waist lines. Don’t wear your jeans low. It’s like an inch below your belly button, or AT your belly button. I know, I know, but trust me. Start doing that now. Get it over that belly. #TransFemmeClothing

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@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 17:59

It's going to take you a while to find jeans, and you need to find ones that fit your body and your style. This is where shit gets really dark. Because trying on women's clothes for the first few times is going to absolutely SUUUCK This is where you need someone else. Either a cis woman who loves you–and, more importantly, loves her femininity. Don’t fuck around with those white second-wave feminists who hate femininity. Find a cis woman who’s like “Fuck yes! Being a woman fucking rocks! Let’s get you looking femme!” Or find an experienced Trans woman. You need someone else there. Let me say this again: The first few times you are trying on women’s jeans, you need someone else there. The only thing more important than having someone else there is… HAVING SOMEONE ELSE THERE #TransFemmeClothing

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@FurryBeta@shark.community 2026-05-14 03:37

@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life I wish I had some femme friends to help me. All the girls I know are tomboys or butch. Still don’t know how to do anything other than the simplest make up after 8 years, and I’m built like a tree trunk, so my jeans just keep sliding down, even with a belt

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