Post #3184177

2026-05-13 17:59 UTC

It's going to take you a while to find jeans, and you need to find ones that fit your body and your style. This is where shit gets really dark. Because trying on women's clothes for the first few times is going to absolutely SUUUCK This is where you need someone else. Either a cis woman who loves you–and, more importantly, loves her femininity. Don’t fuck around with those white second-wave feminists who hate femininity. Find a cis woman who’s like “Fuck yes! Being a woman fucking rocks! Let’s get you looking femme!” Or find an experienced Trans woman. You need someone else there. Let me say this again: The first few times you are trying on women’s jeans, you need someone else there. The only thing more important than having someone else there is… HAVING SOMEONE ELSE THERE #TransFemmeClothing

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@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 18:00

Plain T-shirts in a thrift store, you can do by yourself. (even then, you may want someone else) But anything beyond that is impossible to do alone in the early stages. Why? Because Dysphoria won't let you. Everything you try on is going to look horrible and make you feel bad. You can't trust yourself. You need someone else there to say "Yes, that looks good" and even though you won't believe them, you have to trust them. And if they say “that doesn’t look good on you” you have to believe them, no matter how much you want to look cute in the skater skirt. But you also have to believe that it’s not YOU that is the problem, it’s fashion and society. (And eventually, you can probably get to the skater skirt). But you need someone else to see it. You can't see it yourself. #TransFemmeClothing

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