Post #1716764
2026-04-15 13:00 UTC
@Tessa @eri
This resonates a lot. My ex, who I was with when I started transition, told me in my coming out conversation that she was glad I didn’t want bottom surgery. That fucked me up.
My girlfriend now is so happy for me, and her joy about me getting the transition care I need has been really healing.
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@glassblowerscat@wandering.shop 2026-04-15 13:33
@Willow I’ve also been processing rejection of my transition by my ex and realizing I might actually want a bunch of things over which she expressed alarm. Almost two years I spent telling myself I didn’t want things just because I was made to feel like they were a threat. 💜 @Tessa @eri
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@ciara@anarres.family 2026-04-15 15:46
@Willow @Tessa @eri I feel like expressing a preference about someone else's body like this is a bit of a relationship red flag but maybe it's not that simple
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@Tessa@fandom.garden 2026-04-18 08:43
@Willow i'm so happy you have that now too, Vivian :blobHeart: