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Willow@chaosfem.tw

Mom, Early 40s. Home Cook. Queer baddie, anarcho-feminist writer, asexual dancer. I do hot girl shit (cry a lot, process my feelings, hold space for others) and I take needle drugs (#FeminizingHRT and <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/PrEP" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#PrEP</a>).I do Data Engineering in exchange for money, but find me over at <a href="https://hachyderm.io/@willow_datawitch" class="u-url mention">@willow_datawitch</a> if that’s your jam.Please interact with words, not just boosts and favorites, if you would like to follow me. I appreciate your button clicks! But I need words for vibe checks.I think joy is way more important than I was taught in school.I categorize some

Posts

Post #4089026
If a werewolf girl gets electro in human form, does she have bald patches in the corresponding place in wolf form?
Post #4068002
I gotta say, 30 mg daily of Prozac appears to be my friend. I’m feeling substantially more competent, but more than that, I’m not despairing and paralyzed about how I’m achieving whatever imagined standard of adulting I’m not measuring up to.
Post #3824682
I just totally did a bunch of posing and smiling in a mirror because my face is fucking gorgeous. How did I get this *hot!?* Maybe it’s natural. Maybe it’s estradiol. But I repeat myself.
Post #3798667
Concept: lesbian solarpunk bookstore that shelves all contemporary romance under “dystopian” and all contemporary straight romance under “dystopian, horror”
Post #3708589
Dear cis people, more trans people will be born. They’ll be your children and grandchildren. They’ll learn our history. And they’ll learn what you did or didn’t do, when we needed you.
Post #3706286
Does anyone have good, non-AI written, not-super-violent hyperpop song recommendations? Bonus points for “coder girl slice of life” or “mecha girl” themes. (I enjoy some Charli Morgan like “Lip Gloss and Lasers” but a lot of it veers a bit too into blowing up people for my taste.)
Post #3614807
So, since Earth is under Galactic Empire levels of patriarchal oppression, it turns out that life goals of “transition and kiss girls in public” is like PEAK levels of resistance to fascism.
Post #3562216
Genocide includes erasing a people’s history. Age verification is an act of genocide against queer people. Classifying our writings and media as pornography simply BECAUSE we are queer is an act of genocide against queer people.
Post #3551812
Hey dilation folks, what’s everyone using for lube? I switched lubes a week ago and now my vulva is angry and red 😔 I was using McKesson and I switched to Good Clean Love (which I’ve generally heard good things about).
Post #3496524
Hi cis people! Happy pride! Today #SCOTUS ruled that trans people can fuck off and die. I know you haven’t personally watched any trans people kill themselves, but we are suffering even if you don’t observe it firsthand. Please do accept that this is genocide; I’d like to say “this is how it starts” but we’re well past that now. Please #boost, call your reps to tell them to support bodily autonomy and #trans rights, and go here to oppose a trans gag rule: https://chaosfem.tw/@Willow/1166779385...
Post #3449981
It’s too late to stop me. #ThingsYouCantUnsay #trans #transition I already did it. I’m beyond their checkpoints. They can still kill me. They can still cage me. They can still martyr me. And I haven’t reach the end of my journey. But they can’t stop me from self-actualizing. They, here a pronoun in its multiple and nameless form, affirming no one. The agents of the patriarchy. Everyday people, when they act from the internalized patriarchal norms they’ve been inundated with. They, who dec...
Post #3445616
Fascists treat Queer People like a Renewable Resource #ThingsYouCantUnsay Public, group-endorsed murder is an easy expression of power. Possibly the easiest. “Look, we are killing this person. If you don’t do what we tell you, we’ll kill you, too. Killing clearly doesn’t bother us.” It’s why the organized mass murder of out-groups is used by fascists to enforce in-group unity. Queer folks occur naturally in all human populations. How many is somewhat influenced by what is considered queer or...
Post #3443538
I’m ace; I’m on PrEP because it’s one less thing to worry about when the weather outside is fash-y.
Post #3438984
“Treat others the way you wish to be treated” is such a fucked up aphorism. Other people are different, you have to actually LISTEN to them.
Post #3391764
#AskFedi Does anyone know of an accessible english language narrative history of the persecution of queer people in Nazi Germany in the 1920s/30s/40s? I’m looking for something that can ground my vague understanding of Nazi genocide against queer people. I’ve picked up some of it as community tradition and tales, but if someone has done some scholarship, I’d like to add that to my knowledge.
Post #3104904
If I could go back to #EggCrackMinusFiveYears, I would give me such a long hug. That’s what she needed, so fucking bad, right then. She needed an experience of non-transactional, non-conditional touch. Also, like, I’m a total baddie, it woulda blown her mind.
Post #3057733
Sometimes my presentation feels like performance art. I go to the club in a crop top and fuck-me heels, with my legs bare ankles to halfway up my ass. I’m sex repulsed ace - I’m literally never “asking for it.” No one is *ever* “asking for it.”
Post #2400297
Polyamory: because some of us are more than a handful.
Post #2330514
PSA testosterone doesn’t make people angry and mean, patriarchy does, then blames a chemical to pretend it’s natural.
Post #2169328
https://mastodon.social/@tillybridges/116529789528448153 HUD rulemaking public comment period about shitty treatment of trans folks in shelters.
Post #2163975
Hi, #TransMasc friends! #HRT question for you (that I’m passing on from someone on fedi who is considering starting T): Can you please describe the experience of how T has affected you, particularly if you started it when you were perimenopausal? (Also, I love the joyful threads about how being on the right hormones feel, so go ahead and overshare a bit! Or share struggles, whatever feels right 🥰 :QueerCatHeart_Trans: ) Thank yooooooou! #Trans #boost
Post #2085311
It’s wild how improvements to my physical, mental, and emotional health seem to lead not to “and now everything is better” but instead to “and now you are ready to better understand the backlog of suffering we’ve been storing inside this geologically significant dam.”
Post #2030842
I’m getting into vim, because when I type, vim believes me.
Post #2000446
Part of what I hate about hermeneutical injustice is the way it sets up me AND the people around me to make choices about how we relate that seem reasonable at the time, but then hurt everyone involved really badly when real information about who I am finally wriggles out between the cracks.
Post #1965648
Signal group chat self-organizing challenge! I’m gonna go do yoga. Before I get back, can you get in my mentions, look around at who else is in this thread, and organize yourselves a group chat? Maybe it’s 2024EggCracksCohort, or TransParenting, or CookingMadScience, or ItTurnsOutAnarchyIsGood, or IWishIHadADate, or whatever! 3, 2, 1, Go! #BeTheGroupChatYouWantToSee
Post #1917312
Oof, the emotional drop after late night calls with long distance partners is *rough.*
Post #1805757
One month until I can reduce my dilation schedule to once per day! I’m so excited!
Post #1777530
New rule: Hollywood is allowed to continue rebooting franchises, but all male leads must be re-cast as hard masc lesbians.
Post #1769094
Every time a #trans girl awakens safely from gender affirming surgery, a TERF gets hives. #Boost this please, so I can screenshot it for my friend!
Post #1745777
Three different mirrors agree that when I walk in front of them they should reflect a slightly tired woman with dark hair and workout clothes. I guess I live in a house haunted by a pretty goth lady?