Mallie Sinn
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The mad, queer transfem you come to with questions at #ForbiddenQueeries "If you should start to think forbidden thoughts, then come for me." - Kai Cheng Thom (I Hope We Choose Love, 2019) Profile Pic: A woman screaming at an apple. Darkened trans pride colors frame her. Altered from https://unsplash.com/@enginakyurt Banner Image: exposed, contrasted image of a cup of coffee spilled over a crack in the sidewalk. Altered from https://unsplash.com/@jontyson
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Today, I'm chewing on Kate Manne's theory of misogyny as a social force for policing the roles of "human giver" and "human being" in what it has to say about the shapes of transmisogyny. I'm not sure if others have developed it in this way, but here's the thoughts it spurred in me.
It's especially this summary of Manne's framework in Nagoski & Nagoski's "Burnout" that got me thinking:
"Kate Manne describes a system in which one class of people, the “human givers,” are expected to offer their time, attention, affection, and bodies willingly, placidly, to the other class of people, the “human beings.” The implication in these terms is that human beings have a moral obligation to be or express their humanity, while human givers have a moral obligation to give their humanity to the human beings." (Nagoski & Nagoski, p. 8)
Of course, cis women are expected to be and socialized into the role of "human giver" while cis men are expected to be and socialized into the role of "human being," and if a woman should choose to act as a human being, rather than solely a giver, she is then punished - this is how the system of misogyny is enforced.
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