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@velma@sh.itjust.works
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · 3d ago
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Replying to @Cherry@piefed.social
I live in an old house with a similar setup. I marvel at how the homeowner really thought of where she needed things to be located, how each addition to the house was clearly for the homeowner’s use and ease. The built in cabinets, the cupboard specifically for baking sheets and cutting boards, the ironing board neatly tucked away in it’s own hidey spot. It’s lovely.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · 5d ago
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Replying to @thedarkfly@feddit.org
Your mom is a badass. That’s sick haha
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @SuperNovaStar@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Knowledgeable
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @Okami_No_Rei@lemmy.world
Zesty
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @AcidBurn@retrofed.com
I don't miss washing my hair in cold water to keep the colors vibrant, that's for sure haha
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @knightly@pawb.social
Ohh teal! Such a cool hair color!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @LadyButterfly@reddthat.com
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @LadyButterfly@reddthat.com
Interesting
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 07, 2026
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Replying to @LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone
Hahaha it’s so common! I shaved my head after my divorce :D
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 06, 2026
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Replying to @birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone
It’s when someone slips drugs, usually rohypnol or GHB, into a person’s drink.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 06, 2026
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Replying to @Wren@lemmy.today
I had to carry my friend home from the bar one night last year. She was on her second drink and was suddenly incapacitated. Pure coincidence that there was a guy pestering us most of the night when our partners were otherwise distracted. I’m so glad nothing happened to your friend.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 06, 2026
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Replying to @mangobanana@discuss.online
But right now I’m camping in a cabin by a lake with my wife so that’s nice. That does sound very lovely! I hope you’re having the best time! I’m just starting perimenopause myself so I don’t have much to contribute there, so hopefully others will chime in on that. It’s a subject I’ve been slightly avoiding out of anxiety, but need to dive in and learn more.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 06, 2026
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Replying to @LadyButterfly@reddthat.com
There has been a serious regression over the last ten years or so. I thought that 2010-2016 era online was the worst of it, with gamergate and all, but I see a lot of the same sentiment again these days. IDLES has a great verse in the song ‘Mother’ that resonates with me: Sexual violence doesn’t start and end with rape / It starts in our books and behind our school gates / Men are scared women will laugh in their face / Whereas women are scared it’s their lives men will take /
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
Yep. Gossip isn’t just idle talk. Gossip has historically been the way that women pass information to each other.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world
Hell yeah!!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @cantstopthesignal@sh.itjust.works
In some ways, I hope so. There should be some second thinking happening before comments are posted, particularly those looking for a quick joke at the expense of a marginalized group.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @yuri@pawb.social
Thank you!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
The thing I missed most when switching over here is women’s spaces Saaaaame. So much the same here. Which is another reason I’m such a pain in the ass when sexism is allowed here. Because I want to help build a space that welcomes women as well.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Malyca@lemmy.zip
I wonder how much of that is being stoked by her team. They all make money from her performing. It makes sense that she’s been allowed to fall this far into the disorder when she’s completely surrounded by “yes men”.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
Women are only supposed to be horny when men want them to be. And they better shut their mouths otherwise. Or at least that’s how violet is treated on Lemmy.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @ToastedCoconuts@piefed.blahaj.zone
Good to know!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Grail@multiverse.soulism.net
There’s ways to vocally dislike that type of privacy breach without attacking the users and claiming they deserve it for trying to help other women stay safe.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world
Reddit has been banning a lot more users recently. I think you’re right.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @BrickEater@lemmy.world
That’s the one reason I’ve hesitated on blocking the entire instance. I don’t want to block the users as well.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @some_designer_dude@lemmy.world
Just because YOU can’t move your eyeballs down to the community before commented your opinion doesn’t mean it’s a poor app design.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @some_designer_dude@lemmy.world
That’s some bullshit. I use Voyager and it’s clear which community a post belongs.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world
I promise it won’t be as hard as it feels! You can do this!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Wren@lemmy.today
Actually yeah, I’m all for people choosing their battles and that line in my comment is rigid. Silence in the face of the offense while trying to silence the others is more about complicity than just silence.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Wren@lemmy.today
I am indeed talking about yesterday. I notice when people are quick to silence women speaking up but never say anything to the men breaking the rules. There have been times I’ve been told the bickering in this comm is not pleasant, but the alternative is allowing men to force their sexist opinions in here with no one speaking out against it to show it’s not ok. Silence is complicity imo.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @ToastedCoconuts@piefed.blahaj.zone
Supposedly she’s taking a break “She looks forward to finishing the tour and ending it on a high note, both healthily and happily, and then taking a much-deserved break from public-facing work and appearances, which has led to endless, ongoing public scrutiny,” the rep explains Her reps are still framing this ED as “healthy” though.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works
I had to block that community and I don’t block anything usually. The mods allowed users to discuss how “naturally consensual” 14 year old girls are and the conversation was highly upvoted. It was the most blatant pedophilic conversation I had seen to date here and no one did anything about it.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Nora@lemmy.dbzer0.com
Honestly the first time I recognized your username was seeing you call it out in a random thread somewhere. Actually I think it was about violet too? I can’t remember. Probably, I’ve gone to bat for violet a few times now haha. The men here love to sexualize her, but HATE when she speaks about anything other than sex. I didn’t initially join Lemmy to be the outspoken feminist, but I couldn’t help myself shrug
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 03, 2026
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Replying to @Nora@lemmy.dbzer0.com
It’s worse than Reddit. There’s less diversity on Lemmy and that allows for the misogyny to flourish.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Aug 02, 2026
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Replying to @EggInDisguise@lemmy.blahaj.zone
The fediverse isn’t very large. It is very common to run into users you recognize from other places.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 31, 2026
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Replying to @Mubelotix@jlai.lu
Why include the first then? You’re being dismissive of a real danger women face.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 31, 2026
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Replying to @Mubelotix@jlai.lu
Are you aware of the community you’re in? We aren’t really worried about men attacking other men in this conversation because this is a women’s only community.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 31, 2026
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Replying to @kkj@lemmy.dbzer0.com
or a person chasing me with exposed genitalia This is an extremely inaccurate framing of sexual assault, rape, and violence. Being aware of one’s surroundings and having some methods of avoidance and self defense are good for everyone.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 31, 2026
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Replying to @CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
I did, in fact, get a new stylish swim suit this year! It’s a black one piece swim dress and I loooooove it. Splurged on this little number from Land’s End: www.landsend.com/products/…/id_392743 I’m excited to see what the others have for swimsuits here!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 30, 2026
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Replying to @imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
Cry harder.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 30, 2026
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Replying to @imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
Oh no…. Anyway.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 30, 2026
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Replying to @imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
Are the mocking and insults in the room with us?
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 30, 2026
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Replying to @imeansurewhynot@sh.itjust.works
It’s gonna be nice when Lady Butterfly has time to go through her mod notifications later :)
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 30, 2026
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Replying to @Yeller_king@reddthat.com
And yet women are often admonished for avoiding men.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in memes · Jul 29, 2026
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Replying to @BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
A landlord complaining about having to do their job? Shocked
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 29, 2026
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Replying to @applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone
Oh this is awesome to read!! Sounds like it was a really lovely evening. I’m proud of you for putting yourself out there, that’s hard!
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 29, 2026
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Replying to @graphito@sopuli.xyz
I love a rabbit hole and context haha
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 28, 2026
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Replying to @graphito@sopuli.xyz
What does statutory rape have to do with virginity? Very interesting edit of this passage from Wikipedia by the way. Here’s the full passage on what some sex-positive feminists believe about statutory rape according to your link from Wikipedia: There is debate among sex-positive feminists about whether statutory rape laws are a form of sexism.[41] As illustrated by the controversy over “The Little Coochie Snorcher that Could” from the Vagina Monologues, some sex-positive feminists do not consider all consensual activity between young adolescents and older people as inherently harmful. There has been debate among feminists about whether statutory rape laws benefit or harm teenage girls and about whether the gender of participants should influence the law’s treatment of sexual encounters.[41] Some sex-positive feminists argue that statutory rape laws were made with non-gender neutral intentions and are presently enforced as such, with the assumption that teenage girls are naive, nonsexual, and in need of protection. Sex-positive feminists with this view believe that “teen girls and boys are equally capable of making informed choices in regard to their sexuality”[42] and that statutory rape laws are actually meant to protect “good girls” from sex. Other feminists are opposed or ambivalent about strengthening statutory rape statutes because these preclude young women from entering consensual sexual relationships, even if competent to consent.[43] These feminists view statutory rape laws as more controlling than protective – and of course part of the law’s historic role was protecting the female’s chastity as valuable property. One writer also noted that, at that time, in some states, the previous sexual experience of a teenager could be used as a defense by one accused of statutory rape. She argued that this showed that the laws were intended to protect chastity rather than consent.
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 28, 2026
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Replying to @Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
Thank you so much for being understanding :)
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velma @velma@sh.itjust.works in womensstuff · Jul 28, 2026
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Replying to @Wren@lemmy.today
I like that edit a lot!
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