I say this as a tech person, as someone who has spent a lot of time thinking about dating apps, and as someone who has used OkCupid numerous times over the last two decades:

Don't use OkCupid.

https://arstechnica.com/tech-policy/2026/03/okcupid-match-pay-no-fine-for-sharing-user-photos-with-facial-recognition-firm/