@diegovsky No problem, brother, any questions I'm happy to answer them.

The information is often difficult to find, and if you rely on expats you'll often get bad information.

I remind myself that my situation isn't abnormal. People divorce. People have health issues. People change countries. People learn languages. Maybe the specific mix of bullshit is unique, but I'm not doing anything that other people haven't done (under harder circumstances). It helps. A bit. Also, I've been very very lucky.