Firstly, you copy concepts from evolutionary psychology at your great peril. Manosphere influencers eager to make a buck are happy to grab a DESCRIPTIVE construct from evopsy and hammer it into a different shaped hole of PREDICTIVE or even worse a PRESCRIPTIVE rule A constructed view of how mate selection occurred in GENERAL in centuries and millennia past, is not at all a practical or effective way to predict how YOU will get a suitable mate NOW and HERE Those are entirely different things