@mayintoronto if you want an electronic solution and you're in the Apple ecosystem, Things. It's the only to-do app I've found that gives every entry a *start* date and doesn't give a shit about due dates unless you add them. You can basically just treat it like a long task list with tasks you can snooze, and they GTFO until the date you said you want to start seeing them again. No stress about deadlines, you can happily ignore shit or snooze shit or do shit, whatever you have the spoons for.