sadly, not a shitpost, I see monogamy as unethical. relationships aren't sports, aren't property, you cannot "cheat" to win, it makes no sense. lying is a problem. if my partner came from a conference and told me she got railed by half the conference attendants I'll be glad she enjoyed herself. and if she wouldn't trust me to tell the truth it means there was no relationship to begin with as there's no trust. no idea why most people are obsessed with controlling their partners genitals.