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Unfortunately most of the trans/nonbinary metal musicians I know are on the much heavier side of things (Lotta black metal, Lotta death metal.)
Doomstress is very good. They're modern doom metal with a very obvious influence from Sabbath and Uriah Heep. I love them. Huge fan of Alexis Hollada, she's a bit of a personal inspiration for me and her vocals are breathtaking. Total late 70s/80s heavy metal throwback. https://doomstress.bandcamp.com/
More power metal-y, Seven Kingdom's original vocalist, Lux, is nonbinary and had some pretty great chops on that first album. https://sevenkingdoms.bandcamp.com/album/brothers-of-the-night . Lux is a great vocalist, and has moved on to heavier stuff. Of note is the "Has absolutely no reason to be this good" Dark Souls inspired, concept album focused, death/doom band Soulmass. They're also a part of the extremely interesting power metal/death metal 15-ish person Cordiscord Elysium (https://cordiscordelysium.bandcamp.com/ ), which was started to celebrate Alicia Cordisco's 36th birthday.
Aaaand speaking of the effervescent Alicia Cordisco… She's written, done vocals for, and played guitar for a ton of projects you may be interested in. Obscenely talented, becoming a legend. She's been at it since 2011.
Power/trash, leaning towards power: https://projectroenwolfe.bandcamp.com/
Power/prog early, now more death/black: https://aliciacordisco.bandcamp.com
Power metal: https://judicatormetal.bandcamp.com/
Power metal but Star Wars Expanded Universe: https://justicar.bandcamp.com/
Thrash: https://transgressivethrash.bandcamp.com/
If you poke around any of Alicia's project, you'll find other trans and nonbinary musicians she's worked with who are also extremely talented. Shes how I found out about Lux, for example.
If you ever want heavier stuff just holler :D