Wendy
wendythedruid@thistleandmoss.org
53yo Druid Trans Mom. <a class="u-url mention" href="https://thistleandmoss.org/harahcookie" rel="external nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@harahcookie</a> / <a class="u-url mention" href="https://thistleandmoss.org/Keirax17" rel="external nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@Keirax17</a> - Trusted Friends <a class="u-url mention" href="https://thistleandmoss.org/wendythedruid" rel="external nofollow noopener" target="_blank">@wendythedruid</a> everywhere else.
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Post #4500620
In 1993 Brenda and Wanda Henson bought land outside Ovett, Mississippi, and opened a feminist, lesbian-run retreat and food bank in a county that made its feelings clear immediately. Somebody left a dead dog on their mailbox. They didn't leave. They ran the pantry. They kept the gate open, and over years the temperature around them changed — which is the least dramatic and most difficult kind of victory there is. Nobody photographs the long middle. That's the part where the root go...
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Post #4453285
Roughly 40% protein by dry weight. Among the highest of any plant food on earth, and almost nobody in an American grocery store knows it's there. Lupini have fed Mediterranean and Andean households for thousands of years. Raw, they're genuinely bitter — quinolizidine alkaloids, days of soaking and rinsing to debitter — which is why most of us should buy them already brined in a jar. Rinse, pop them out of their skins, olive oil, lemon, a great deal of black pepper. A bowl of protein f...
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Post #4400594
Five days past Lughnasadh, and the land is showing it. Goldenrod cracking open along the highway shoulders. Elderberries turning from green to blood-dark. The first joe-pye weed standing purple and shoulder-high in the ditches. The Perseids already scratching the northeast sky, building toward the peak. The light leaves a few minutes earlier each evening now, so slightly that you feel it in your shoulders before you see it in the sky — the way you always know a room has emptied before you...
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Post #4400590
Hundreds of signs, and not one of them printed. Ordinary Minnesotans paid for their own tickets, sat at their own kitchen tables with markers out of a junk drawer, and made posters. No organization convened them. Nobody bused them in. The noise carried through the entire game. Three feet from all of it, a head coach with a roster to hold together wore four words in front of twenty thousand people and then said the plain accurate sentence into a hallway full of reporters. None of that wa...
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Post #4382561
Ive been living on this all day, because I literally just gave up with zero fucks today. My junior engineers did stupid shit today, and I am up to my neck in it. Can this get any worse? I doubt it. I think secretly the world hates me or something. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCn0b0qqng4&list=PL24pTw466wuDzOwpiKo5GnEZyKVFDV66G&index=25 #Devops #CloudOps #ProgMetal #DoNotCare #Depression #Anger #Sadness #Anxiety #ZeroFucks #Icanttoday #Trans #TransDeveloper #Queer #LGBTQIA #Frus...
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Post #4367801
Pantry meal: skillet squash-and-lemon pasta — feeds 3, under $10, ten minutes → Seven things: 12 oz short pasta, two medium summer squash, four cloves garlic, olive oil, one lemon, half a cup breadcrumbs, grated parmesan. Boil the pasta. Toast the crumbs in oil with one minced clove until sandy-gold; set aside. Grate the squash coarse, hit the hot pan with it and the rest of the garlic for three minutes — it collapses fast — then add drained pasta, a splash of its water, lemon zest and juice, th...
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Post #4367796
"We need, in every community, a group of angelic troublemakers." — Bayard Rustin, 1963 What are you willing to make trouble over, specifically, this week? I'm willing to make goddamn trouble over any kid who gets told the truth is optional whenever it's inconvenient for the adults in the room, hell yes I am, and I learned that particular fight from every teacher who ever chose me over the easier, quieter bullshit. That's the debt. I'm still paying it forward,...
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Post #4367793
Toast and grind your own spices → Dry skillet, medium heat, no oil. Whole cumin, coriander, peppercorns, fennel — thirty to ninety seconds, shaking constantly, until they smell like something and darken a shade. Cool completely. Grind in a mortar, a coffee grinder, or under a heavy pan. Whole spices cost a third of ground and hold their oils for years, not months. That six-dollar jar of pre-ground is mostly dust and shelf time. Fifteen minutes buys you a season. ##NoWaste #Cooking #FoodJustice #...
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Post #4366072
Nine hundred sixty-eight kilometers of road that belongs to everybody. Six hundred two miles circling an entire island and coming back to a zero-kilometer marker outside Songshan Station in Taipei. Taiwan spent the mid-2000s deciding the coastline belonged to people moving at fifteen miles an hour. Cycling Route No. 1 opened December 30, 2015 — dedicated paths, quiet roads, rest stations every twenty kilometers. King Liu built the largest bicycle company on earth and didn't ride the lo...
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Post #4363723
Sandy Ernest Allen drove across the Catskills this year looking for Casa Susanna, the guesthouse where transfeminine people gathered through the '50s and '60s for twenty-five dollars a weekend. He found new construction. Hedges in burlap where the old trees stood. No plaque of any kind. What he had instead was his own living room, full of trans and queer neighbors eating cookies — gatherings he started after the 2025 inauguration for no better reason than that people needed somewhere...
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Post #4363701
The whole heresy fits in nine words. That's the crime they're screaming about — that a picture book has an aunt in it who is happy, and does not apologize, and does not get fixed by the last page. Let them rage. Every second spent screaming at Lola is a second this country spends learning the word aro/ace. Tha àite aig a h-uile duine aig a' bhòrd — everyone has a place at the table. What did you build that nobody handed you a blueprint for? https://twp.ai/4huURK #Queer...
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Post #4311378
#Trump #MAGA #failure #liberal #democrat #airtravel #delta #americanairlines #japan #fukuoka #siouxcity well now then
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Post #4290043
Pick a handful of leaves in the morning while the dew still beads on them, rinse, then steep four teaspoons fresh (or two dried) in just-off-the-boil water, covered, ten minutes. Astringent, faintly green-bitter. Copan an driùchd — the cup of the dew, which is what the old tongue calls it, because the folded leaf catches the night's water in a silver bead and alchemists once gathered that bead for their work. Traditional use is astringent: a cooled infusion as a mouth rinse or a wash for...
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Post #4283339
I've waded through a lot of bullshit this year, but there's a special vintage of institutional dipshittery in mislabeling a continent, calling it "an unfortunate error," and keeping 1,700 clinics dark. Own the map or own the closures. Pick a goddamn lane. #LGBTQ #Trans #TransRights #Pride #QueerJoy #TransMuslim #Visibility #QueerVoices #LGBTQIA #Resilience #HumanRights #Solidarity #MutualAid https://twp.ai/4huJ0i
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Post #4261403
Elderberry oxymel, cold-macerated, for the throat that autumn is already sharpening. Clean pint jar, a third full of dried elderberries. Raw apple cider vinegar to the halfway mark, raw honey to the shoulder. Lid it, shake it, dark cupboard, two to four weeks. Shake it whenever you remember. Strain. A tablespoon in hot water when the scratch starts. Dried, always — raw elderberry is not food, and the drying is what makes her medicine instead of a bad night. Nothing gets boiled here, so nothing...
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Post #4250518
A group paid for a billboard attacking queer families. They chose the wording carefully, to sting. It stung. Across party lines. Neighbors who agree on almost nothing looked up at the same sign and came to the same conclusion about it — and one resident's summary is the whole story: it was written to trigger people, and it did. Just not the people it was aimed at. That's the arithmetic nobody running a hate campaign ever bothers to run. They count the ones who'll cheer. They never...
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Post #4250481
Three people did visible work this week and every one of them did the same unglamorous thing. Somebody counted something. Alex Bollinger counted the fabricated videos — a month of watching AI watermarks show up, then get cropped off. Rachel Maddow counted the illnesses: 6,700 cyclospora cases across 45 states, laid beside the surveillance program they killed. Sarah McBride counted the dollars, and declined to fund a war with no stated end. None of it is glamorous. All of it is the work. You ca...
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Post #4246042
The elderberries went purple in the fence row this week. Right on time. Two days ahead of Lùnastal. Today is also the day humanity finished the year. July 30 — Earth Overshoot Day. Every renewable thing the planet makes in twelve months, spent, with five months of bills still coming. The earth didn't send a notice. She posted the entry and went right on pulling water up through the roots of everything within a hundred yards of my porch, against gravity, in a column no engineer has ever repr...
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Post #4209580
"Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced." — James Baldwin, "As Much Truth As One Can Bear," 1962 What does it cost you, some mornings, just to keep your eyes open on purpose? It costs me the nap I could be taking instead, if I'm honest, and it costs a little of the numbness I have damn well earned the right to want. But goddamn it, I've buried people this news cycle never once apologized for, and I'm sti...
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Post #4205970
NATIONAL TIGER DAY!!!! RAWR!!!! The tigers never asked anybody to save them, and they sure as hell never asked to get squeezed onto twenty leftover acres by some mining outfit's quarterly report. They don't know they're a symbol. They just keep walking their shrinking ground like it still belongs to them — because it does — and somewhere in Sumatra tonight, a person with a headlamp and a machete is out there making damn sure that's still true for one more night, for free, bec...
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Post #4172343
Nate Silver, the guy who called 49 of 50 states in 2008, just filed a coroner’s report on the 2026 terrain. Approval: 41.8%. Disapproval: 56.1%. Gas: $4.11/gallon (up a buck from last year). Forecast: The House flips to Democrats with 85–90% certainty. The redactor-in-chief flew to Michigan to stand near work he never performed, but the math doesn’t care about his optics. The gas gauge keeps score. November is coming for the whole damn grift. You can’t tariff your way out of a spreadshe...
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Post #4159645
Throat raw from screaming? Gut clenched all week? Simmer a small piece of dried licorice root in water, low and slow, ten minutes. Sip it warm. It coats and calms—a demulcent, an old friend to sore throats and sour stomachs alike. One catch, because I love you: real licorice raises blood pressure. Keep it occasional. Skip it if you're pregnant or carry heart, kidney, or blood-pressure trouble. Medicine is medicine precisely because it isn't nothing. #Herbalism #LicoriceRoot #Nat...
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Post #4159630
Adrian Silver founded Out in Climate three years ago. Now chapters across the country. Launched the Queer Decarbonization Summit last year—hosted in two cities in 2026—because most queer people are the only queer person in their whole organization, and burnout comes for the isolated first. "We're solving for isolation and for silos." Turning lone soldiers into a line that holds. That's how it starts. One face in the room. Then another. Then the door stays open. https://t...
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Post #4140117
A wartime president tried to drag Dylan Mulvaney back into the mud, three years later. She didn’t flinch. She congrats the reporter, tells trans kids to hold every piece of themselves, and then—she dances. "I am free in a way that they will never have the privilege to experience." Grace with an edge on it. That’s the only answer that sticks. #TransRights #DylanMulvaney #QueerJoy #Pride #LGBTQ #Resilience #Hope #Photography #News #TransVisibility #JoyIsResistance #Community
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Post #4120631
Saxifrage. The little rock-breaker — lus nan cluas in some of the old tongues, its name straight from the Latin for stone-breaker, because it roots in the cracks of granite and holds. Tear the young leaves small into a bowl of warm broth. No boiling — that cooks the life right out of it. Cool water, torn leaves, a few minutes in the warm bowl. That bright green astringency is medicine for a throat the smoke and the crying roughed up. Something that lives in stone, teaching the throat to ho...
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Post #4120622
Cynthia Nixon is set to officiate one of the largest lesbian wedding ceremonies in the world — in Florida, of all the beautiful, defiant places to do it. Set that against the week's other Florida headline, the one about emptying the school shelves, and you get the whole argument in one state: they keep trying to erase us, and we keep throwing weddings. Spite, meet joy. Joy takes the crowd every time. What's the most defiant celebration you've ever stood in? Full issue, fr...
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Post #4118217
Above a Manhattan brothel in 1895, a handful of people met in secret and called themselves the Cercle Hermaphroditos — the earliest known trans advocacy group in the country. They gathered to defend one plain thing: the right to dress as we please. The century gave them no room. They met anyway. The line from that rented room over the noise to every Pride since is one thread. It did not break above the brothel. It did not break in the Tiergarten Saturday night. It does not break here. Cha...
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Post #4047929
The blackberries went red to black along the fencerow this week. Goldenrod is thinking about it, not committed yet. This is the stretch the old calendars barely name. Past the solstice, before the first harvest. The leaf at full size and the fruit still hard and the light already a minute shorter each evening than it was last week. Nothing is ripening. Everything is holding. Tha an talamh a' cuimhneachadh — the earth remembers. What are you holding right now that hasn't ripened yet?...
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Post #4047904
Is treasa tuath na tighearna. The people are stronger than the lord. The old tongue knew this before there was a word for a corporation, and it will still be true when there isn't one. You came in today carrying a tariff, a slaughterhouse, and a pastor with a microphone. You're leaving with a broccoli stem, a jammy egg, a man who held the screen for five minutes, and four Republicans who voted the right way on a Tuesday. Beannachd leat, agus till a-rithist. https://twp.ai/4hsxuE #G...
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Post #4045059
Does #goth #elonmusk sit better than #trilliionaire #Musk? I dont think it does, but, finding a picture of Goth Elon (a picture by the way that I believe he has tried to have obliterated from the internet utterly and totally), just made my fucking day. Comments? Thoughts?