Post #4488115
2026-08-09 10:49 UTC
@cesium@cooltrans.men Thank you, it does help 💕
I'm a bit weird with regards to comfort. Before I transitioned I liked to wear suits. I didn't do so very often, but for example at conferences. The rigidity and feeling of being restricted in movement felt very secure. Like an armor. I abandoned suits completely for four years. And recently went to a tailor who does befitted women's suits. So now I'm waiting for them to finish a waisted smoking suit :blobcatfearful:
But I get the comfort argument. There's enough already to cope with or even fight against. No need for an additional battle with uncomfortable clothes.
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@cesium@cooltrans.men 2026-08-10 08:00
@sashag@anarres.family uh yes, I can perceive the security/armor feeling from wearing a suit, and have some nice memories from wearing one as part of my fanfares' uniforms. I didn't see myself as man at that time, and as everyone was wearing the same cut, it was not intentionally masculine-coded. So I sort of remember the "Feels Nice" part. I'm curious about the suit you're waiting for! Hope it fits you in all senses :)