Post #4488114
2026-08-10 08:00 UTC
@sashag@anarres.family uh yes, I can perceive the security/armor feeling from wearing a suit, and have some nice memories from wearing one as part of my fanfares' uniforms. I didn't see myself as man at that time, and as everyone was wearing the same cut, it was not intentionally masculine-coded. So I sort of remember the "Feels Nice" part.
I'm curious about the suit you're waiting for! Hope it fits you in all senses :)
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@sashag@anarres.family 2026-08-10 08:41
@cesium@cooltrans.men Me too. It's the most expensive piece of garment I ever bought :blobcatfearful: The suits at conferences worked so 'well' that I gave defensive arrogance vibes (black three-piece, black shirt and black silk tie with polka dots). After one conference I had an interesting chat on IRC: "I saw you at the conference." "Why didn't you say hello?!?" "You looked so arrogant and unapproachable." :blobcateyes: