Post #3825820

2026-07-14 21:59 UTC

I have a hard time, whenever people go too deep into the male/female focused gendertalk, because it seems to always be excluding for those who doesn’t fit in a two gender world. And I’m pretty sure, that if we actually managed to create a world where the gender you were assigned at birth didn’t control as much as it do now, more people could become a different - more natural - version of themselves, which wasn’t pre-defined by society. But how do we do that?

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@alikatze@social.tchncs.de 2026-07-14 22:20

@mosgaard@uddannelse.social Perhaps, the first thing is to accept differences. To accept that not everything fits in boxes. Than to see "states" as a spectre not as a binary. (Then you may also come to understanding ADHD and autism.) And at last, try to separate your own likes from general expectations. For example: I like (prefer) women in a (what I think) female appearance. But I accept many more kinds of female or male (spectre) appearances. And those are only in my recognition - means: in other eyes they may be recognized totally different. More words than I intended 😸 but I think, regarding spectres (I hope, I used the word correctly) will make many things easier.

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@rythur@mastodon.social 2026-07-15 01:18

@mosgaard@uddannelse.social Fire the hateful. Vote better. Avoid corruption.

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