2026-06-30 05:09 UTC
I've been cat sitting for a friend, and I can't figure out how his family does it. They eat right. They exercise. They arrange their space nicely and tastefully. They don't have too many things, but the things they have are nice. Their plants aren't dead. It's not even a neurotypical thing: my friend and his wife have ADHD in abundance. Their house looks like it is full of love
I think I'm a bad at being a person. My home is choked with clutter and stuff that we cannot seem to throw away. Everything is broken. We don't really have art, and what little we do have is tacky or not framed. Everything is a mess. Nothing works right. There are several problems that I really should call someone about, but I can't. My place looks like a flophouse for a nuclear family that hates order.
I don't know what's wrong with us, but we are doing it wrong.
Replies (3)
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@HG@beige.party 2026-06-30 05:27
I'm very good at exactly two things: reading and writing. If you had to pick two things, you could do worse. But when it comes to, like, aesthetics or planning or household management or exercise or diet or art or enjoyment or living well, I'm a wreck. I'm like if God spilled a person.
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@MelissaBearTrix@gives.hugz.online 2026-06-30 05:12
@HG@beige.party {Looking around my place} No, you're all good ... Hugz Hugz & xXx
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@GalbinusCaeli@spacey.space 2026-06-30 05:18
@HG@beige.party Are your children healthy and your pets happy? If so, you are doing fine.