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2026-05-13 18:06 UTC
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@FinalGirl@blackqueer.life 2026-05-13 18:07
This is what I now affectionately call The Plausibly Deniable Femme Uniform, after another, more experienced, Trans woman saw me in it and said that I wasn't branching out and was only wearing clothes that were "plausibly deniable." But that's the thing, there was a power in that I desperately needed. The ability to wear actual women's clothing, and not fall on my face. I didn't have to wear a skirt, I didn't have a flowered shirt. I had basically the same clothes as before, just girl style. The Plausably Deniable Femme Uniform allowed me to do two things: Wear women's clothing everyday and start to crawl out of my dysphoria shell Experiment with other directions safely, while having a solid and safe base to work on. For instance… shoes!! #TransFemmeClothing