@JamesDBartlett3@techhub.social
Post #3108102
2026-04-01 18:40 UTC
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@light@noc.social 2026-04-02 00:02
@JamesDBartlett3@techhub.social But then, if you don't believe your agent is a person, why are you treating it as one? Do you believe that it helps them be more effective assistants? (Looking through your blogpost) >“it” is for objects, and they aren’t an object. Then what are they? @Sqlgene@techhub.social
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@Sqlgene@techhub.social 2026-04-02 13:53
@JamesDBartlett3@techhub.social I think the ick some from the phrasing of "choosing" one's pronouns. I think in English there is a bundle of meanings implying strong preferences, dysphoria if those preferences aren't followed, and a meaningful amount of introspection. Even "suggested" feels a lot less icky. I also have to deal with people (thankfully almost never in person) who see my husband's identity is as arbitrary and artificial as what clothes you put on on a given day. So personally I don't want to conflate an LLM making a suggestion with people's deep and meaningful identities.