Post #2821820
2026-05-25 01:02 UTC
I hate the "born this way" as the only correct way to look at sexual orientations, it just feels like pleading not guilty for something that should never be a crime to start with.
I also can't really imagine myself anything but born this way. This is despite of spending way too much of my earlier life wanting to be correctly existing as allo-pan, and I still don't write off being in a domestic relationship; I just don't think I will ever be on the same wavelength with an allo and vice versa.
Replies (2)
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@faithisleaping@anarres.family 2026-05-25 01:05
@BigShellEvent@toot.cat I don’t get allos. Like, I love a good romance. I think I even want to be romanced. But I don’t get how most people relate to sex. It just doesn’t compute to me.
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@ami_angelwings@urusai.social 2026-05-25 01:10
@BigShellEvent@toot.cat I also dislike it for the same reason