Post #2772439
2026-05-22 16:47 UTC
Replies (9)
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@kii_chan@tech.lgbt 2026-05-22 19:52
@noboilerplate@namtao.com @lostterminal@namtao.com the fact that Youtube auto-generated "gay" to be in the URL is absolutely peak ๐ค
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@Xerunala@chaos.social 2026-05-23 08:12
@noboilerplate@namtao.com oooh! Very unexpected! But really enjoyable watch! Thank you for bringing this topic to a wider audience and have them question society's defaults!
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@larsmb@mastodon.online 2026-05-23 08:12
@noboilerplate@namtao.com Thanks for sharing! Having lived ENM for ~3 decades now (and one of the connections closing in on 2), I appreciate the video. I'm always confused when people try to tell me it can't work in the long-term. I do think it would have benefitted from experience though to appreciate the complexity, complications, and realities. And the privileges required to go down this path. But yes - more people should be aware that relationship styles are a choice we have.
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@SvenGeier@mathstodon.xyz 2026-05-23 18:22
@noboilerplate@namtao.com @lostterminal@namtao.com Like so many other aspects of human existence, relationships aren't nouns. They're verbs. They're not something you "have", they're something you ๐๐. That gives them the fluidity of software - they can have any structure you like.
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@laenan@chaos.social 2026-05-24 07:34
@noboilerplate@namtao.com To be honest, for me it was not surprising at all. It may be another topic, but there are some similarities to organization at least. And it fits with the impression I have of you as a person based on the style of your other videos (e.g., CC0, mentor mentality, ...). And I enjoyed it!
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@dasrecht@chaos.social 2026-05-24 09:26
@noboilerplate@namtao.com absolutely love when someone's work I see regularly changes unexpectedly to another topic I like <3 thanks for this!
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@sparklepanic@infosec.exchange 2026-05-25 02:01
@noboilerplate@namtao.com @lostterminal@namtao.com amazing video! im looking for the source to the image as i want to use it in an 88x31 web button. do you know the source?
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@rakulamenta@troet.cafe 2026-05-28 19:46
@noboilerplate@namtao.com Wow, I am only 60% through the video but this makes soooo much more sense than any other attempt ive seen to describe how relationships can work. Stopping now โฆ need to think about a lot of decisions i have made in the past. I will watch the rest later.
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@sntx@chaos.social 2026-06-06 08:32
@noboilerplate@namtao.com @lostterminal@namtao.com How can every Video you make just be phenomenal? Thanks.