Post #3034289
2026-05-23 08:12 UTC
@noboilerplate@namtao.com Thanks for sharing!
Having lived ENM for ~3 decades now (and one of the connections closing in on 2), I appreciate the video. I'm always confused when people try to tell me it can't work in the long-term.
I do think it would have benefitted from experience though to appreciate the complexity, complications, and realities. And the privileges required to go down this path.
But yes - more people should be aware that relationship styles are a choice we have.
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@noboilerplate@namtao.com 2026-05-23 12:08
@larsmb@mastodon.online agreed, and there are many queer folks who have this experience that can speak to that better than I - and I have linked to many of them in the bibliography in the video details 😅