2026-04-23 21:56 UTC
@siege I've gotten this from random acquaintances and from other transfemmes. And it always annoys me.
I NEED people to understand that it's not how I view any of this. I need to have a vagina in the same way a cis woman does. View it as a *necessity* and a natural part of who I am, rather than as a choice, and work backwards from there.
Would you tell a cis woman to go get a penis because they're easier to look after? No? Then don't say it to me!
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@2something@transfem.social 2026-04-23 22:54
@CordiallyChloe@tech.lgbt @siege@masto.hackers.town I got "You're giving up on male privilege!"
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@ChristianRiegel@digitalcourage.social 2026-04-25 13:06
@CordiallyChloe @siege It still boggles my mind like generally: Why should I (I'm a cis man but for my point IT'S ANYONE) ever tell you which genitalia you should/shall/must have/not have? That's very very high on the "not my business" scale. But since I'm here to learn... so I should be afraid that trans women might be too sexual and could then... teach that to... cis women and that... threatens my male... monopoly on it (??) That's very very high on the "male insecurity" scale.