"Are you going to wait forever for men to love you back?"
A great essay: https://taliabhattwrites.substack.com/p/political-heterosexuality-or-the, learned so much about political lesbianism and heterofatalism.
"Since we all seem to need the reminder, let’s revisit the feminist politics of appeasement. And if the feminism of white women is so objectionable, let’s consider the very same history of tension between lesbian and heterofeminism within the Black feminist tradition." and she goes on to examine bell hooks and others.