@callunavulgaris @misaimed_brain @autistics
Obviously not all allistics are the same. But I do think that the sheer degree of difference between individual autistic's is something they just really can't encompass. It is so far outside their experience and expectations of how people are and does indeed make it difficult for them to understand us, even if they are truly trying to.
Although to be fair to them, even those of us who are coming to this much later in life struggle with this one at times.