@olivia (bear with me here) at queer dance parties i’ve been to, gay guys like to dance near other gay guys, and once a critical mass forms they exert a gravitational pull that draws in more gay guys like a horny black hole

but in trying to be near men in the process they push out the women, who don’t tend to like to rub up against each other in quite the same way

so women often end up relegated to the back of the dancefloor, to say nothing how there’s fewer of us at events in general