So but I am responsible for other people to have more flexible free time just for fun? No, but you ARE responsible for your own decisions. That’s it. You don’t get extra perks just because you forgot to wear a condom 7 years ago. It’s just about taking parents needs into consideration If you aren’t capable of handling your job, why do you have it? Accommodations are like… the ability to go to doctors visits, and a chair to sit it. Accommodations aren’t “force Kevin to do my work because I didn’t plan ahead.”