@Melezioh yeah, generally speaking, the trans women I've met on here have been literal angels but I just went through all of this person's posts and I have noticed a pattern of reactivity that makes me wonder if trans fems who treat trans mascs this way are traumatized by the patriarchy. I think it's easier for them to target people of their own community than the group that is sincerely threatening to all of us (typically cis men) There is also a type of sour trans man that I've had run ins with (very recently actually) who I assume are traumatized in the same way. It seems to inherently make these people sour on the opposite gender and they become the cause for a lot of community in fighting. All of this to say, I really dont think her reactions to you are actually personal, even if it understandably very much seems that way. Obviously it's still very not okay to lash out at anyone like this, but my theory tends to help me not ruminate on it as much, anyway. I hope youre okay man