I find "do unto others" doesn't work well for neurospicey people.

I don't want any staff to talk to me in a shop, I don't want to be offered a cup of tea, I never want to be provided with a TV in the background of a waiting space.

This is a me problem, I know I still need to do all these things unto others. Because the actual expectation is "do unto others the assumed mean of what the population wants".

Going around randomly doing unto others what you genuinely want done to yourself is anything from confusing to criminal. It's not a great idea for anyone.