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• Post #4503096

  You are cordially invited to not give a fuck

• Post #4379481

  Look. If you are on T and suspect you have vaginal atrophy talk to your doctor and just take the damn estrogen. I know estrogen is scary but it won't affect your bottom growth or T levels and you will feel...so much better. Trust me... Just do it.

• Post #4378168

  Anyway, I just had to become a boy to be the girliest I've ever been.

• Post #4343852

  In the recent social confidence gained from the exposure therapy I've been doing, I have foolishly decided to join in on a family dinner...the amount of deadnaming and misgendering after 1.5 years of being out.. I remember why I isolated myself. Theres also this incessant refusal to believe in any plans I make for my future. I wanted to believe that I was just too reactive or sensitive to my familys criticism/disapproval but no, they actually suck

• Post #4282155

  Anyway, as trans men and mascs we should normalize accepting the responsibility to seem safe to women and other queer people. We can discourse forever about how man hating sentiment makes us uncomfortable and how we have no structural power over these groups but the reality is we look and act like men and thats triggering for people vulnerable to patriarchal abuse. Cis men also have to prove their allyship, this is not unique to us, and not transphobia.

• Post #4263180

  Stop asking "do I pass?" Start asking "have I struck fear into the hearts of men?"

• Post #4262652

  Stop asking "do I pass?" Start asking "has my existence thwarted cishet normativity today?"

• Post #4258693

  @nev@status.nevillepark.ca reeaally 👀 thats pretty neeaat

• Post #4258501

  Today I learned:

• Post #4247648

  Things I didn't know I needed: https://youtu.be/Vfh4DpalD4k?si=QBSZ-zFayyNpGYYa

• Post #4230771

  I looked up the abandoned Marineland in Niagara Falls and found that the black algae infested tanks still had whales in them and I've had intrusive thoughts about it ever since, ama

• Post #4226722

  I just said out loud "hes only 55!?" I am getting so old.

• Post #4223297

  It just dawned on me that, for the rest of my life, all of my relationships will be queer and I am so at peace.

• Post #4206442

  The more my body masculinizes the more my gender presentation dreams become hyper feminine and when they told me my "tastes might change" post T I..did not prepare for an obsession with tutus and hot pink but here we are I guess.

• Post #4179069

  The trans masculine vibe of being invited to a dyke march and being weirdly flattered that lesbians still trust you that much.

• Post #4178003

  TIL that what you resist actually does persist and I'm so annoyed.

• Post #4173492

  Chat I did it, I am volunteering at the trans library as we speak okay, I'm so proud of myself, this time last year I was too panicked to even think of appearing here.

• Post #4091574

  Avenged Sevenfold has been experimenting for 13 years now and I desperately need them to conclude that their old music was better and go back to being inspired by Metallica.

• Post #4075404

  Anyway, today was probably my last gyno appointment ever in my life. Ever. In my life.

• Post #4074701

  Another thing they don't tell you about transitioning is that you'll secretly form an emotional attachment to all of your surgeons and get just a little heartbroken when their job is done and you'll never see them again.

• Post #4054763

  He is everything I aspire to be.

• Post #4019772

  Being autistic is so fun because you just assume everything is fine until your body either suddenly deteriorates or your entire life as you know it becomes dramatically easier and it's all because one small thing that even you didn't notice has changed.

• Post #3937091

  Every day I learn how damaging skinny culture is, how deeply I've internalized it and how fucking weird the lack of body diversity in media is.

• Post #3920654

  I'm not gay, I just have sex with men.

• Post #3913508

  One thing they don't tell you about HRT is that it makes you process your trauma, and not just your dysphoria related traumas, too.

• Post #3912406

  Slightly weird men are my single ray of hope in this world.

• Post #3894195

  Chat, there are like 3 hairs on my cheek that are actually dark and coarse. My beard is still growing in. There is hope in this world and peace is possible.

• Post #3877386

  You know you can just.. do things because you like to, right? You don't have to prove your skill or be better than anyone. You're allowed to just enjoy things.

• Post #3871692

  Ah yes, the 2 seasons: Fire and snow

• Post #3841901

  So I've been pestering this trans organization to let me volunteer with them for like, months now, and I was just sitting here getting anxious and rejection sensitive about them not replying to my emails wHEN THEY FINALLY REPLIED AND WERE LIKE " ya pls volunteer with us pls pls" So yay me