Post #856978

2026-03-30 16:48 UTC

That PixelFed Dansup guy has been called out by BIPOC women for a couple of years and I see he’s up to his usual BS again. He will claim minority status to excuse his behaviour. He has been one big red flag since the beginning and if you make excuses for him just block me.

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@stephaniepixie@fandom.garden 2026-03-31 18:28

What I find interesting is that some people’s first reaction to this post is “that sucks” but then ask for evidence of abuses. This isn’t court. No one is listing their grievances to rehash abuses. If “Dansup” being ableist, racist, and sexist is news to you (and you actually knew who he was) this just tells me you don’t follow enough women in the Fediverse, especially disabled women and women of colour. No one owes you their trauma and no one is getting “cancelled”. You either believe women when they speak or you don’t. Choose accordingly. You can continue to like your faves and ignore what women say. You will anyway even with the evidence because you’ll only interpret it with your own understanding of the world. Your questions tell me that your world does not believe women and I want no part of that world.

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@cold@gunbark.dev 2026-03-30 16:59

@stephaniepixie of the couple folks on fedi I've noticed with major Main Character Syndrome I've personally noticed over the years, he's certainly one of them

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@jherazob@mastodon.ie 2026-03-31 06:43

@stephaniepixie Ah fuck I didn't knew, is there a summary somewhere I can read to get up to speed?

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