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Post #721570

2026-03-22 17:18 UTC

I would like to just ask some questions of cisgender people. If you are a man, think back to when you were a child:When did you know you were a boy?How did you know you were a boy?How did you know other boys were boys?How did being a boy around other boys make you feel?What if you had constantly been called a girl?What if every time you tried to assert that you were in fact a boy you were told you were wrong, that you were lying, and that you were going to get in trouble if you kept saying that.What if you were forced to wear pink dresses all the time?What if you were given dolls whenever you asked for action figures?What if you were told not to climb trees because that wasn't very ladylike?What if you'd gotten your ears pierced before you could stand up on your own or say a single word?If you are a woman, think back to when you were a child:When did you know you were a girl?How did you know you were a girl?How did you know other girls were girls?How did being a girl around other girls make you feel?What if you had constantly been called a boy?What if every time you tried to assert that you were in fact a girl you were told you were wrong, that you were lying, and that you were going to get in trouble if you kept saying that.What if you weren't allowed to play with the girls because it "wasn't appropriate"?What if you were given action figures whenever you asked for dolls?What if you were told to stop crying because crying was girly and if you didn't stop they would give you something to cry about?What if you were spanked for heading toward the dresses in the clothing section?If you can't answer these questions because you never really thought about it, ask yourself why you never thought about it. #Transgender #Cisgender

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  • @jrdepriest cis male here, although i have an unusual relationship with gender that i'll call "gender-meh". 1, 2, 3, 4) i was *told*. at five i was an only child and had no notion of there being anything else than "boy". i did not, of course, think about girls. that i only played with other boys was not a decision on my part; it just happened. (when the other boys giggled and asked me if i knew the difference between a boy and a girl, i said "long hair". amusing that i was more right than they were.) 5) i imagine i would have accepted it. 6) that would have been deeply upsetting — i'm autistic — but i can't imagine it happening. 7) no idea 8) i played with both. asked for dolls, sometimes. 9) pretty certain i would have ignored that. 10) ooof, that's just *wrong*.

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  • @BernieDoesIt@mstdn.social 2026-03-23 22:17

    @jrdepriest I'm very curious to hear the results if you get any NT cis people to answer. I'd also be happy to answer these questions from a very nonbinary point of view.

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